Confidence issues?

Question

How can I make myself feel confident and look pretty and confident?

Answer 1

Determine to like yourself whether others do, or not. Then, do so. Then you won't worry so much over whether you are pretty enough to suit, or compete with, someone else. Also find something you can do well, and be confident about that. Can you play guitar well? Do you dance well? Learn to take great photos. As your confidence in your skill grows, it will spill over into other things as well.

Answer 2

The saying confidence comes from within is so true! When i was in my teens i was so quiet and just followed the crowd but now theres no holding me back from anything! Secret - Holding my head up high and thinking confidently and doing what I wanted to do, not the crowd! Talk about power trip and confidence boosting!!!! Go for ittttttttttt!!!

Answer 3

Say this every morning: " thoughts of other people cannot hurt me. If someone talks about me I promise I will keep my head held high, shoulders back, smiling because what they say may have hurt, but they have their own insecurities. My _________ Makes me beautiful (name a new thing every day, not just physical beauty). I am confidant because I am healthy and strong and smart and a gorgeous babe." I say this when I am feeling low. Also, download "Unpretty" by the girl group TLC. It is really good and is even better watching the video on youtube. I listened to it five times when someone called me a whore, and Felt so much better. And remember, You are beautiful.
Hope I helped
xoxo
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Answer 4

Tell yourself the positive things that you find in yourself. The only thing that can give you confidence is yourself. If you think positive thoughts that you see in yourself, that gives you your confidence. Just believe in yourself and don't put yourself down. And that gives you all the confidence you need. *Good Luck*

Answer 5

pick out something you really like about yourself. ( everyone likes something )
for example if you really like your eyes make them stand out,
you know what i mean?

in a way you can look pretty by just being happy
as for confident wise, if your happy and love yourself,
other people will notice, and you will give off a good vibe.

body wise,
tone up :]
( not saying you have to , but most people can use it )

just look in the mirror and see what you love about yourself and focus on that for now ; plus flaws make each and every person beautiful and unique.

Answer 6

i know how you feel on this. really all you have to do is feel good about yourself. do something to make yourself feel good about yourself. the worst thing to do is compare yourself to other girls...that will only make things worse. you are yourself =] looking pretty doesnt have to do with how you look on the outside...you have to feel it on the inside. keep your head up! =] it takes a while to gain confidence but when you do...you will be the life of any party!
good luck sweetie!

Answer 7

hello
well first off
its easy to say 'think positive' isnt it? you can convince yourself you are thinking positive but really your not

this is why i love these shows, trinny and susannah and how to look good naked, because they are taking clothes to help women feel their beauty inside and outside

as to make yourself feel confident
go on a shopping spree! buy new clothes and new makeup and have a new haircut. have a bath and pamper yourself

the clothes thing is the most important though, because it is really hard to buy clothes for your shape
i found this website which TRINNY AND SUSSANNAH made with littlewoods
they give you some ideas for clothes for your shape
and they give you some ideas of clothes for your 'problem areas'
take these rules to the shops and practise them
www.littlewoodsdirect.com
you can find them here
my internet wont let me go on the site at the moment sorry!

Answer 8

Confident thoughts. Walk with your head held high, shoulders back. It makes you look and feel better, then to say if you were walking with you head down.

Answer 9

confidence is sumtin you cultivate... it comes as a result of your thinking. if you try and always look the better side of things happening to you then you'll start being confident about yourself with time

Answer 10

when i feel down and ugly, i pamper myself, i do my nails have a face mask and hair mask and then a long soak in the bath with by favourite bubble bath,
then i style my hair and do my make up til i personally feel that i look nice and then i feel nice and pretty,
so long as you feel good, why should you care what other people think?