I hate to watch tv or movie with my husband. I feel that my husband may comapre me with the girls in them. I feel so inferior when comapring myself with them. Am I jealous of them or is it common for all girls?
2007-12-18 03:49:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You don't sound jealous to me, you sound insecure. Those girls are on tv. All people, men and women wish they could be more like a tv actor/actress but you are who you are and you can't change that except to change the way you feel. Be glad your husband is watching tv with you. Talk about the actors and actresses, they are just people with lots of make up to make them look better and they have to learn scripts to know what to say. Enjoy your time with your husband and know that even though he may think a gal is pretty, you will be the one sharing his bed.
2007-12-18 04:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by Medicine Woman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did your husband ever comment about how girls look on tv to you?
If he said "She has nice eyes" or "She's hot" or something in that nature, than that is rude. Do the same thing to him, when you see a hot guy on tv.
If he hasn't verbally said any comments and you "know" he loves you and you still aren't comfortable watching tv with him when there's other attractive women on there, then don't watch with him. You can't stop men from thinking what they're thinking in their heads and men can't stop us women too.
It just becomes a problem when it becomes and obsession.
2007-12-18 11:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are jealous. Nothing wrong with that. I wish I had a body like Halle Berry or Beyonce. Who wants their msn drooling all over other women? Not I.
2007-12-18 12:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by heartsarebad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are jealous and to be honest I'd feel jealous and inferior too if I was in your position, I have a low self-esteem.
2007-12-18 11:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by litterbug_kid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether common or not is irrelevant.
This can seriously interfere with your marriage.
I think you should seek professional help for this. I'm not being snitty here, but this isn't the sort of thing you can just make go away, and I think it's damaging to you and to your relationship with your husband.
BTW, he DID chose you, didn't he?
2007-12-18 15:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ure not jealous just insecure
2007-12-18 12:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealously is unfortunitly one of our less adoring traits, but it is natural it is how well we hide it that counts!
2007-12-18 12:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to be jealous
2007-12-18 11:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋