2007-12-18 03:34:35 · 31 answers · asked by ♥Ello♥Vee♥E♥ says Shut Up, Take Notes 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
By the connection of our two souls which is what I do now to even pick friends.If our souls arent on the same levels then we wont get along.
2007-12-19 08:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Grim Reaper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess I can't differentiate them now because all those bone thin, no body super-models look just as bad to me as a 500 lb behemoth and someone who is grossly disfigured.
And what correlation is there between a spouse and beauty in this day and age ? Most people seem to just get drunk, bump uglies, get pregnant, have their conscience bother them enough to get married only to get divorced as quickly as possible and do it all over again, and again and again.
Isn't that the example all the famous, wealthy and powerful are setting for us "common" folk to live by ? Seems to be since teen pregnancy and divorce are at an all time high. It's the "bump and run" generation !
2007-12-18 11:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, doesn't character affect how you view a person as beautiful and ugly? Why are well-built men in suits attractive? They look successful - like good providers - and healthy/vigorous. I think that beauty is a bit more complicated than just the features on a person's face.
However, since I think this is what you are really asking, I think kindness is the most important trait in a spouse, because there are a lot of times when you will need them to be kind to you!
2007-12-18 11:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jen T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only man who can't differentiate a beautiful woman from an ugly one is a man who doesn't have any sex drive. And when a man doesn't have any sex drive. Then he feels no need to choose a spouse. He is happy being alone.
2007-12-18 11:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing beauty does is start conversations. After that it is all based upon personality, and whether or not love truly exists between the two people. So if I couldn't differentiate then I'd probably have a perfect match.
2007-12-18 11:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by diomedes44 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strong and positive personality. Good and somewhat goofy sense of humor. Some education beyond high school. Ambitious. Creative. A dreamer. Spiritual (may or may not be religious...there IS a difference). Openminded. Honest. Full of compassion. Sexually compatible. This person wouldn't have to be the ultimate in all of these areas, because none of us are perfect. But a fair balance of each characteristic would steal my heart.
Oh yeah, she already did!
2007-12-18 11:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by luckynjoe4ever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Humour. I like funny guys, i don't even care how a guy looks as long as he's funny. I remember watching some shitty american show that used to come on here late at night like 3 years ago, and every week a different girl had to talk to these guys and then decide if she wanted to date em or let em stay in her apartment or something like that, anyway this one week it was this really hot blonde guy and this not so attractive lawyer guy. But the lawyer was hilarious and the blonde one was bland as hell. And i remember i always used to opt for the hot guy in my own mind but this one time i was urging the girl to choose the lawyer guy...but she chose the hot blonde one and then she slept with him and realised she went into it too quick so she ended up with no guy at all. I remember watching that and thinking i was never gonna make the same mistake as that stupid ****.
Ok i don't even know what i just said. Humour. Yeah.
2007-12-18 11:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personal Hygiene
2007-12-18 11:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
beauty is relative. moreover, there's this kind of person who is not beautiful but somehow easy in the eye, which means we can look at him/her for hours but don't get bored of his/her face.
i'd definitely choose my spouse based on his character and personality rather than his physic. like, i'd rather be with someone who can make me laugh rather than someone who's so handsome, but annoyed me all the time.
2007-12-18 11:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd call my wife and ask if maintaining the status quo was OK. I think it'd be simplest, rather the deciding to choose a new one after I went blind.
2007-12-18 11:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by Psychedelico 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋