he left to korea and cheated multiple times on me what do i do
2007-12-18 01:36:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hunt him down and make sure he supports the kid.
You didn't say if he was Korean or American or what but whatever and wherever he is it's his child and his responsibility.
Find him and force him to be a man rather than just a male.
You do not need him in your life but your child should be supported financially by him regardless of whether he has any physical contact with the child.
The child is his financial responsibility.
2007-12-19 15:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by lostinchicago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the "Daddy free club". The cost of entry, one broken heart and a child down the road who wants to know why they don't have a daddy.
Life is hard as a single parent. Trust me I have two boys and little girl comming any day. I can't tell you what to do. And any advise you get won't help a great deal. It's a live and learn kind of thing. All you can do is give it your all so at the end of the day you can say, " It was hard but I gave it my best." I look at my kids and wonder where in the world did I get the strength to get this far. But trust me they make it worth while. I wouldn't give them up for the world. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-12-18 01:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by barbara_taylor17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, men are known to do that....get over it and raise your child by yourself...it is not the end of the world. many of us are single mothers and doing just fine. There is help out there, look for it and have a wonderful baby. He is not worth the aggravation if he couldn't stay with you through the pregnancy. Right now your baby is more important. Good Luck.
2007-12-18 01:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by deb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have the baby go on with your life, get a lawyer. i believe if u know where in Korea u can file child supp rt, were u are due to the baby. and he comes to court or pays. make sure he is in Korea. also how many other people he got pregnant.
2007-12-18 01:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the beginning, i'm sorry on your modern undertaking. it truly isn't ordinary. do not hassle relating to the expenses. Your husband has pronounced he is going to pay them so please do not rigidity approximately that suitable now, tell him you could not locate the money for to paintings considering the fact which you % to strengthen your toddlers and besides the certainty which you will learn how to appreciate that he has left, you nevertheless truly need his help and ask him to do it for the toddlers. tell him you probably did not assume him to depart and you're very hormonal and disenchanted and you elect his help through this on an identical time as a chum. you should make your husband comprehend as a results of fact he has created the two those lives with you, you're twenty years outdated and he needs to step up and be a guy. the certainty he is going to pay the expenses is a good start up. i think of you should additionally attain out to different kinfolk for help which you will believe, case in point your sister. If she is smart and can help tell her you truly want her help. you're clever through not putting your babies in a risky undertaking with your mom and her boyfriend. in case you have made substantial errors or led to upsets on your dating with your husband, now may be the time to repair them. despite in case you depart him for some days to take a seat back off, apologizing in case you have completed incorrect can bypass a protracted way. If it is him thats wronged you consistently, then in basic terms hassle that he maintains to be a good dad, helps you in the process the being pregnant and you gets yet another guy to love you and grant for you. i comprehend yet another guy ought to not soun that super suitable now as a results of fact it is not who you %, yet while issues dont paintings between you and your husband, your heart could have companionship. in basic terms relax suitable now, in case you sense sick in any respect bypass to the wellbeing care provider or call 911. Use each and all the assist you may get and make your husband see how undesirable you elect him and the way your little woman is properly disenchanted crying for her daddy. good luck and that i wish all is going properly with you all. In my prayers x
2016-12-11 08:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by harrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you are in this situation....but there is a bright side. You do not need someone in your life who cheats on you and would leave you and his child. This is not the behavior of a man who loves you. You don't need him. With him gone, there will be less turmoil in your life when the baby is born. You can and will do much better....
2007-12-18 01:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by duffie_1999 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sory to hear that he left you both. There is no excuse for such behavior. You don't deserve someone like that. Get on with your life. You are better off without him. Get support from your family so that you can raise your baby.
2007-12-18 01:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by Karin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejoice in the fact that you found out what kind of man he really is before you introduced him to your child. Forget him and take care of your precious baby and someone better will eventually come around!
2007-12-18 01:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by Alexa's mommy ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm sorry to hear that. I guess you should seek help from family until after having the baby so you can then support your baby. I really hate it how people can do this. Take care. Add me if you like!
2007-12-18 01:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Armina's Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he left as a civilian, I don't know that there is much you can do. If he left as military, you can start the child support paperwork now and start having it deducted from his paycheck.
2007-12-18 01:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by SamIam82 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋