for us?how come i didn't see any?but then i knew when someone like me for who i am or just want to fool around?they said there is true love but how come i never seen one?i realize i don't fall easily or people...can anyone tell me whats the reason?people thought they can just take me that easy but i just don't see anything that people catches our heart..why is this so?am i too picky?but then i really didn t have that feelings for others.and i m looking for faithfulness it just don't seem anyones is. there any faithfulness and true love exist nowadays?
2007-12-18 01:04:24 · 7 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You must first learn who you are and learn to love yourself before you will find true love.
Yes, it exists, I have found it for 17 years now and it is great. But before I could find it I had failed in several relationships as I learned more about who I was and what I really wanted and expected in the other person. You MUST know who you are and what it is you are realy looking for.
A good place to start is to spend some time researching personality profiles. If you honestly desire to learn who you are and how to identify other peoples behaviors you need to do this. It will save you time and heartache. DO a google search for DISC profiling and take one of the tests from one of the companies that administers the test. You will learn so much if you anser every question honestly, you will be amazed.
Yoda out
2007-12-18 01:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Yoda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are looking too hard. You seem to have as many questions about yourself as you do about "the one" who is out there for you.
The most important thing, in my opinion, is that you are true to yourself. I have seen true love and I have seen obsession and I have seen other things, but each instance is different and what may seem like the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow may just be a reflection of a fantasy you have built in your head.
If you are picky, you have every right to be - it is not a bad thing. Much better to be picky and end up alone for a while, than to settle because you don't want to be alone and then wake up one day and realize what a terrible mistake you have made.
There may be someone for you, there may not. In the end, it is possible to be happy without a significant other. Not easy, but possible. Fill your life with friends and laughter and take your mind off looking; who knows, maybe it will happen for you then!
2007-12-18 09:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've felt like you do, many many times...i was disbelieving that honest, geniune, good men exist...i dont think its being too picky, its just respecting yourself and wanting the best! some people are willing to settle for far less than others...i waited and yes i did meet a man who restored all faith!
he is sweet, caring, respectful, makes me feel special in everyway...treats me like a lady :o) he is everything to me and we share a committed relationship...before love was difficult, i doubted partners, i felt unfullfilled but now i know that if compatability is right then love becomes easy...he is my best friend and the person i admire most in the world...
keep the faith, believe that he will come...and yes be picky as you deserve a faithful and loving man who will be by your side through thick and thin...when he does arrive in your life your doubts will disappear...good luck!
2007-12-18 09:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by CDsummersun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word: Lonely.
Ye shall seek.
Things are not going to be handed to you on a silver platter.
2007-12-18 09:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seek a therapist to answer your questions, you seem to have some unresolved issues.
2007-12-18 09:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try rolling with life and don't question it too much.
things happen as they should, so take some comfort in that.
2007-12-18 09:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by FlyingScooter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop looking and you will find
when we are searching we tend to discount it because we are looking
slow down and stay still love will find you because it is all around us
2007-12-18 09:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋