one of my friends ask me this question, i really don't know how to answer, is it okay..??? are there any verses in the bible that forbid/allow it ???
thank a lot for your explanation....
2007-12-17 23:54:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
As Paul said, "All things are permissible but not all things are helpful."
If the sexual experience is within the confines of a marriage recognized by God then it is permissible to do those things that were intended. Oral sex is never specifically addressed in scriptures and where disease is not involved then there is no harm to the physical body and as long as both partners are willingly participating and enjoying the experience then I believe it is okay.
Anal sex however is damaging to the body and great care must be taken to ensure that no harm is done. I would characterized this as a use not intended by God and therefore not okay.
Importantly, neither should ever be contemplated by one spouse when the other feels it is sinful for conscious sake.
Hope that helps.
2007-12-18 00:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by gilliamichael 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
The marriage bed is undefiled according to scripture:
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Still, there is something to be said for treating another human being with dignity and solicitude - care and consideration. While oral/anal sex if both parties are willing and not made to feel obligated it must be understood that these feelings would be a normal reason for pause as certain parts of the body were designated for certain things. As well, one partners desire for an experiance that is unmet by the other can cause strife. True love making should be about pleasing the other partner rather than recieving pleasure. Anything that is undignified, painful, perverted or infrindging on the others physicality should be avoided. Its the males job to protect the female and not inflict or objectify her. If you want a true guide to lovemaking and I do believe there was oral sex involved (though anal I don't believe is a viable option) then read the Song of Solomen. There are no verses in the Bible that forbid it per se...be very careful in your advice to your friend because there are behaviors that are practiced today that simply weren't spoken of back then that not permissable now in the light of God's other revelations on human behavior. Love in Christ, ~J~
2007-12-18 00:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I would have to say that the marriage bed is undefiled. But a husband & wife should be respectful of each other.
Also I agree that certain parts don't belong certain places.
Afterall you wouldn't wipe your tail and then blow your nose in the same tissue,or eat it..would you ?
2007-12-18 10:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As per the Church: sex is only for procreation. PS: anal sex is same thing re male and female: same sort of hole, if I can put it that way, and one of the best way to catch and transmit HIV AIDS...
2014-02-27 04:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by robert43041 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do in your sexual life is your business and no one else's. References to sex in the Bible include being married and not to the same gender. That's it.
2007-12-17 23:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by tcjstn 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing specific in the Bible referring to this. I believe what happens between husband and wife is fine as long as it is consensual.
2007-12-18 00:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jouvert 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
From what I know of my bible study is that as long as you are married and with the opposite sex then anything goes.
2007-12-18 00:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
oral sex yes, anal sex no, that's my opinion bro
2007-12-18 23:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think there was this passage I read that told when one of the apostles (forgot who it was) spilled his semen on the ground he had committed a sin. But other than that nothing... so knock yourselves out.
2007-12-18 00:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by d3slyn 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Hypocritical.
Fine for those who believe in Jesus/God, but not others.
What a cRock.
2007-12-18 00:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋