2007-12-17 23:24:06 · 15 answers · asked by james_hamilton 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit the games. Please learn the terms open dating or casual dating.
You do not have to be own by a 'girl friend' in order to go out with her and have a good time. You are allowed to date more than one gal at a time. Stop giving yourself away.
Exclusive dating should be done with a person you are interested in marrying, WHEN you are ready to marry and after you've known her a good long while.
Be free and Be smart.
2007-12-17 23:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by rustyoldma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry.
There's lots of girls who will really love you.
I don't know when you'll meet her, but I do know that she's out there somewhere.
Even if you don't like her when you meet her, get to know her better so you WILL like her. Her real beauty is her heart, because that's where every woman's caring and loving spirit comes from. The only reason why you're usually rejected is because the woman that rejected doesn't want to release what guys think is sweet. She doesn't wanna release her angel. Well, some girls in this world actually think that's stupid, and I'm one of them. Just wait, and your angel will come. Soon enough is all I can say about the time.
Hope this helps.
~12 year old Qistina~
2007-12-17 23:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by clandestine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change to the other side. Women always like to play games. Go with an older woman that doesn't need to mess with your head. Good luck.
2007-12-17 23:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by john b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mate i bet your one of the nice guys that the world has to offer and that is a great thing however women dont seem to be attracted to the nice guy. get some edge about you show them you do not care almost act like a jerk but not over board you can still be yourself but like i said you need edge. When they start playing head games play some head games back it will work trust me
2007-12-17 23:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Blake E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since not all women play games. Keep an open mind and keep looking.
I do not understand this game playing myself. It goes both ways and is very hurtful.
I am actually dating a really nice guy that other than when he lets his imagination get away with him, plays no games. Its just him, and most of the time he is wonderful.....
2007-12-17 23:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by blueeyes_unever_4get 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found that I've learned a lot about myself from dating. I've dated girls who have taken advantage of me, and others that, unfortunately, I've taken advantage of. I've compromised my own beliefs just to convince a girl to like me. That being said, I never had very good relationships until I understood who I was and what I wanted.
Take a break for a few weeks to a few months from dating. Figure out what you are really looking for in a relationship. You may not be looking for the person you'll marry, or you may. You may want to just screw around (something I definitely don't recommend for all the heartache it will cause in both of you) or just have a closer friend to hang out with. Also figure out what things you're interested in, are they comic books, video games, movies, books, art, hiking, sports, eating, whatever.
Also look at your friends. Do you have a strong groups of friends that you have fun with and are there for you when things go badly? These are the people who will help you understand who you are, and let you know when you're making a mistake in a relationship. they're also the people who will like you regardless of your looks or what you do for them. I can't tell you just how important that is to having a relationship with one person.
Take all of that and recognize how important you are. It will make a huge difference when you're sure of yourself and what you're looking for in a relationship. From there you should go out with a bunch of people. With a better understanding of yourself and strong friends to support you, it should be far easier for you to avoid the girls who play head games.
As soon as they ask you to do something you don't want to, drop them. As soon as they cheat on you, let it go and lean back on your friends for support.
It's not always going to be easy, and you'll likely go through a lot of different "dates" before you find someone who really meshes well with you.
Break-ups suck no matter what. But I've found that when I know who I am and what I want, it becomes a lot easier to tell who isn't supporting that.
2007-12-17 23:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by tlbignerd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose nice girls who have values and believe in the same things that you do. If anyone ever plays games with you end it immediately, the right one will turn up soon enough!!!
2007-12-17 23:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by JOANNE C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going older is a possibility, but if I was the girl I would much rather have you tell me how you really feel. Maybe they just reject you because they don't want to tell you the truth....
2007-12-17 23:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by dolphin08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they rejected you because you didn't win the head games, how did you think girls select boys?
2007-12-17 23:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean HEAD games, then start drinking pineapple juice so your semen don't taste so bad. If you mean MIND games, then start ignoring women. They will chase you when they are ready.
2007-12-17 23:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋