I have moved in with my boyfriend and everything I do seems to bother him. He has two closets in his room, but I was given a small closet in his daughter's room. I took the bigger closet which the daughter didn't mind, but he seemed to have a problem with it. I have a chest that I put into his daughter room, she doesnt seemed to be bothered by it. He wants it in my closet, but it doesn't fit. I like to sleep in the dark. He has the habit of sleeping with the tv and closet light on. I put the tv on timer, so that it is on until he falls asleep. I tried closing the closet door, but he doesnt want his clothes to hot in there, so than I turned off the light completely, but it's still a problem. Everything he claims his daughter has a problem with, but she doesn't. It is always his concerns. Would you be comfortable living here, if everything you do is a problem?
2007-12-17 23:04:38 · 7 answers · asked by Linda J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like the problem. If he asked you to move in with him then your stuff should be in his room. Take all your stuff and move out he does not want to give you any leeway and sounds quite controling. His daughter on the other hand seems really sweet.
2007-12-17 23:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by scragatag 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is her boyfriend. As usual people who tell their side of the story first get the upper hand. They often leave details out the situation also. Linda forgot to mention that she has here own closet and she doesn't maximize on the space available. I gave her solutions on how to make her clothes fit in that space. The problem is she doesn't like the fact that it's my idea. She wants things to always go her way. Sorry I'm not that type of guy. I often bend over backwards for this girl. However sometimes I just have to let her know I'm still the man. she can fit her jeans in the closet or we can collectively put our heads together and find a solution. I don't want a large tote bin on my daughters bedroom floor. That's not asking for much. Thats her play room. It's not the smallest bedroom nor the biggest so I would to keep more room than less. My daughter's cousin' come over often and they play hard. I don't want them tripping busting their head on something that could have been out the way. As far as the light issue in my room. I can't sleep in total darkness. I have trip over things getting up in the early hours to go to the john. Should I suffer? We can meet at some ground. But nooooooo the problem is she always wants things her way. She is a spoiled young lady. This is the same girl who doesn't want me to have any real say so at our wedding. Check her question/answer archive. As long as I have a financial investment in it. That will NEVER EVER happen. Fair is fair.
2007-12-18 03:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by Neil R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you made a bad mistake. Start looking for yourself a place. If he doesn't realize that women need more closet space, and he is not willing to share his chest of drawers with you, you are going to have more than a few problems. He sounds selfish.
2007-12-17 23:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me like he has something to hide in that closet. Just lock him in there. Dont think you should of moved in babe. Tell him how you feel. By the sounds of it he has got you where he wants you and now he wants you to go by his rules.
2007-12-17 23:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by sarah h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place, I wouldn't have moved in with him. I also would have been wise enough to "see" the potential problems b/f takin' up with him. I'm not that desperate, tho. Sorry.
2007-12-17 23:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way. if hes not willing to equally share things like a closet with you then hes not ready to share his life with you. hes a posessive control freak who doesnt deserve someone as understanding as yourself. leave honey!
2007-12-17 23:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way, i think soon these problems will split you guys up in the end, so you guys need to talk and see if you can work these problems out. good luck.
2007-12-17 23:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by hartigan18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋