im the middle child in my family and always left out, im not smart so my big sis has the brains and my lil sis is the best at sports to my family im a failure. i really hate it as no one understands me, how do i make my family love me again as i hate being a no one
2007-12-17 19:08:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Awe, sweetie you are a unique person and there will always be something about you that your family loves. You have the middle child syndrome. Just be a good person and be known as the one that doesn't give your parents any problems. If you act out to get attention, that would be a bad thing. Just do your best. Be yourself. If you can, go a little out of your way to do something nice like straighten up the house a little or help out with other things. Be someone that can be counted on. Look around and develop some interests like drawing, poetry, music, anything. If you busy yourself with activities you won't feel so lonely. Gosh, I wanna reach out a give you a big hug! Good luck!
2007-12-17 19:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by SonoranAngel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop sitting in front of ur computer screen and go out and do sometihng. anything. preferably something good lol. u mite not be the best at sports and academics but how bout music? or help out in ur community and get known. like everyone else here says, im pretty sure they love you. im a middle child too but im quite the opposite from you. i dont mind being left out. actually i PREFER that they leave me alone. you could tell them u feel left out but.....iono it depends on what kind of family u live with.
2007-12-18 04:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by xSELENEx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.. i'm sorry you're feeling left out.. you can always ask your parents to please listen.. tell them how you feel.. "i feel left out" "i feel misunderstood" "i hate being a no one"...
just tell them what you said here....
and i found a website with a little information about being a middle child... maybe it will give you some insight. you can find more information on line by doing a yahoo search for MIDDLE CHILD SYNDROME and COPING WITH BEING A MIDDLE CHILD...
take care hon! and do let your parents know how you feel.. you are important and deserve good things!
2007-12-18 03:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fret. You just haven't found anything to be good at, yet. Your turn will come to shine eventually. I'm sure you family loves you too.
2007-12-18 03:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur parents that you r left out
2007-12-18 03:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by Wasabi Kimchi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not thing like that coz u hav ur own specialties like me,i also middle child,hehehehe : )
so,u should talk with ur family,ok?
2007-12-18 04:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not realize it, but your family loves you for you, and they love you for your own special talents. Just ask them. You'll see!
2007-12-18 03:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do your best.... theres no point trying to be someone ur not.... ur family (in the end) will be proud of you.... seriouslly
2007-12-18 05:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by SomeJunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to them how you feel. I f you need anyone to talk to go ahead and email me.
2007-12-18 04:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋