he makes me soo miserable! i can't stand him at all and he NEVER understands me. So recently i moved to another city and left everyone back and my one chance to go back to visit my hometown for winterbreak, he is going to try and ruin it. He starts to come in my room and yells at me for how unresponsible i am and then i just scream at him back for not being a caring father, then he starts to curse at me and has this smartass attitude like me knows everything about me but he doesn't. Then he says i can't hang out with my friends just because they are not very "rich" or perfect like he wants them to be. He is an alcoholic and i planned with my sister to just leave him and not come back to the house for a while because he is starting to make my life living hell. My mom is gone to missouri taking care fo her sick parents so i never get to see the person who really understands me. What should i do? Is that a good idea to leave?
2007-12-17 17:22:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
u know... i also resent my father.... i know its hard being in a home in which none actually understands you... believe me... im in the situation myself... what i do is i tend not to listen.... seriouslly
2007-12-17 21:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by SomeJunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have graduated from high school and have the wherewithall to get out of your parents' house, then by all means, do so.
Perhaps you can go stay with friends in your hometown and find a job so you can get your own place. Perhaps travel back to Missouri with your mom... check the wantads in that town and line up some interviews.
In the meantime, do the basics to stay out of trouble and keep a low profile... clean up after yourself, do your chores, do your schoolwork, and see about spening as much time other than that away from the house... ideally working somewhere so you can bank some escape money.
2007-12-17 17:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alcoholism is a very sad illness. It gives a person the false notion of understanding just about everything in life. I would like to know if you drink on occasion. Some folks are predisposed to becoming alcoholics, especially if thier parents are alcoholics.
I would like to say if for whatever reason you need to be apart from your Dad, remember He does love you.
we are not on this earth for very long . make the best of it and be sure your Dad knows you love him. no matter what.
2007-12-17 17:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by stymie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are like to have a dad how cares.be for you plan to leave you should try to talk to him when he is not drinking.to clear the problems between you to.my Father was not in my life when i was growing up.so i could not fight with he.i cant even talk to him because he died when i was 17.so don't do anything you mite regret later.your dad mite have his problems.remember he love you.
2007-12-17 18:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think so..if he's not gonna change his attitude then what's the reason for staying, ur just gonna make ur life miserable
2007-12-17 17:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by HelpMeHelpYou.. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wont know what its like to hate your dad untill he hits you.. trust me
2007-12-17 17:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋