we had an idea to move to a foreign country to live with my husband and children, im a mother having 5 boys ages: 29/27/25/18/13 years old, we stayed here one year but now we feel its too difficult and no socializing here and i got no friends,so i thought that we go back to my home country with my two childrens: 18/13 as usual and live there,my husband can visit me everywhile and my big boys,so i was thinking do i stay here with them and help my family in the house like: cooking/washing/cleaning and cancel my life which i had it in my home country or i get back to my country and think about myself also? please advise im really confused..thanks!
2007-12-17 16:57:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would not leave my husband to have friends. Get out an make some friends where you are at.
2007-12-17 17:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing for sure, is, you must be a mother to your youngest children who are at home. Try to work it out with your husband. He is important to you and the boys. I don't know where you're from, or if your culture dictates something different, but if you chose to marry and have children, you should make a life with them and do all you can to be happy and productive. Good luck.
2007-12-17 17:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mercedes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must do what makes you happy. If you are not happy your kids won't be happy. If your husband is alright with this idea and you are wanting it then do it. Don't be afraid to make a change if you have to. Sometimes we stay in a situation because of fear. You will teach your sons that life changes and there is nothing to be afraid of. We all have a right to be happy in this life. Life is to short to have any regrets. Good Luck and God Bless
2007-12-17 17:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 01:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to the kids. Always.
2007-12-17 17:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids should come first
2007-12-17 17:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by Don't take life 4 granted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋