Okay, finals are in two days and I want him to be relaxed but like me, I am tense but I don't show it. He rarely gets overwhelmed but he does so well in school. How do I help him relax?
2007-12-17 16:19:25 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could first relate to him by letting him know that you feel tense about finals too. If you try to advise him without letting him know you know what he's going through, he might not take your advice in the end.
Then, explain how you believe that he does really well in school and that he doesn't need to worry or be anxious about it. Try to make him see your point of view while being understanding and willing to listen if he opens up with his doubts.
For me, I tell my friends that it's just a piece of paper. Why should we get all depressed and stressed because of a simple piece of paper? Life's more than that. If you fail, it doesn't mean you won't succeed in life, it just shows that you didn't answer some questions right on a certain day of your life.
Accompany this "ambush" with some fudge brownies or a treat to let him know that everything's okay. :)
2007-12-17 16:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by relish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does so well in school and rarely gets overwhelmed, why mess with him at all...he's obviously doing well the way he is. He'll relax soon enough after exams are over and the holidays start.
2007-12-17 16:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, make sure he is prepared for his finals. If he is not prepared, then he won't be relaxed.
Once he is prepared, get some beer and watch his favorite movie. Just make sure he gets enough rest so he'll be up and ready for the next day.
2007-12-17 16:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Gilbert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out on a date with him. Like the movies and dinner. Make a vow not to talk about finals. Try going for a walk (when it's not totally freezing).
2007-12-17 16:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by Adrianna Scar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of study time and a good massage never hurt
2007-12-17 16:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just squeeze his shoulders like a massage for a while b4 finals and he's set to go... just dont tire out ur hands too much lol =)
2007-12-17 16:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he has right to have friends that are girls and you to have guys has friends... But normally, if your pregnant, it wouldnt look okay for a pregnant women to be around guys. My opinion.
2016-05-24 11:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by carolann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help him study, give him some quiet time, maybe see if he wants a massage
2007-12-17 16:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by eee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on yur age?!
2007-12-17 16:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just assure him that he will do fine, and thats about all you can do. Other than that study together.
2007-12-17 16:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by peyton31602 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋