theres this guy named chris , & i know that he likes me even though he hasn't been direct about it . he makes a lot of hints. ♥ that he may like me.
on thursday i'm going with him to the movies with 2 other friends to see a scary movie.
like what do i do during the movie ? do i put my head on his shoulder or hold his hand ? kiss ? any suggestions will be appreciated.
oh i'm 14 & he's 15 i'm in highschool .
2007-12-17 16:04:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start my sitting down in the seat, and if he doesn't put the arm up, do it for him. Wait for a while, not more than 15 or 20 minutes into the movie, and if no move has been made yet, kiss him on the cheek. It friendly and flirty.
If that doesn't bring him to making a move, nothing will. =]
Even if he's holding your hand, this will work. Every time... But here's the thing: MAKE SURE YOU DON'T DO ANYTHING YOU'RE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH! You'll regret it.
Have fun, watch the movie (maybe), and good luck!
Also.. remember, you are only 14. I'm 16, and I'm a junior in high school, and I'm glad that I never forced myself to do anything I didn't want to do. It's much easier to get yourself INTO uncomfortable situations than it is to get out...
<3
2007-12-17 16:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by CHeerqueen101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, first thing i would do is, during a really scary part (or when it gets momentous to a scary part) grab his hand, doesnt matter how, laced is probably preferred, and kinda let the flow follow after. Yeah, putting your head is also preferred. Kissing, he'll be the one to decide that, he's the gentleman! You'll know too, just keep it cool and don't do anything retarded! Hope this helped!
2007-12-18 00:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by Chris W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to make the first move. If he leans into you, lean into him. You can be flirty by smiling at him a lot and sitting by him. During a scary scene, if you get scared you can put one hand on his knee but don't leave it there too long. If you cross your legs, cross them towards him, it's good body language. And most importantly, have fun! The more worried the more sweaty you become! lol
2007-12-18 00:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch the movie. be cool. act casual. this way he'll take the time to notice what you're like outside school. i think people are really different when they're in and out of school. besides, you guys are going with two friends. i don't think it's the best time to do any of the kissing or head-shouldering if there are other people around? do that when you're both comfortable enough and when you're alone. just have fun. don't overthink it!
2007-12-18 00:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do depends on YOUR feelings for Chris. If you really REALLY like Chris, hand holding or the sweet head on the shoulder is pretty much all the signal he needs to know he's found a sweetheart.
Movies aren't a good place for hands to roam elsewhere....come to think of it....at your age....NO place is a good place for exploring hands.....until you're 20.
But I'm wasting my breath there, am I? Stick to the rule of "No Glove, No Love": trust me---you'll be glad you did.
2007-12-18 00:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgosh.. i'm doing the exact thing on the same day too!! sept hes 16 and im 14. ok so Just to get a seat next to him and tell him your scared and ask if you can be close to him or something. Another thing you could do is say your hands are cold. and if they are hot tell them they are and show him. lol
you could also just grab his hand!! Only kiss him if you are alone and not with a group. He might feel weird.
2007-12-18 00:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie and maybe cling to his arm during the scary parts. Don't kiss on the first date because they will be expecting oh so much more sooner rather than later. Make him work for it and earn it.
2007-12-18 00:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to relax. That's the first thing you should. Just act natural, okay.
Make sure you sit next to him when you guys watch the movie. Try to let him make all the first moves. For instance, if he puts his arm around you while you guys are watching the moive, than you put your head on his shoulder.
Think positive and have fun.
2007-12-18 00:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by Rose L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you think he likes you.. Try to grab his hand on a "really scary" part of the movie and see how he reacts. I suggest you play tennis with him the next day, physical activites stimulate chemicals in your brain that will make somone "fall in love." As will a really scary movie due to the fact that it's intense.
2007-12-18 00:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you want. i think just watch the movie. but if you want something to happen just like jump @ a scary part and like "accidentally" grab his arm and then do that girly smile we've all mastered and pretend you're a little embarassed.
otherwise just chill about him. it'll all come together!
2007-12-18 00:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋