Is this pointless?

Question

I was given this life by some higher power - Allah or karma or whatever.

I'm somehow supposed to be thankful. But the big joke was that I was made short.

I have to be punished for this stigma I had no role in....something that was forced on me. Pretty girls are attracted to me, but since my crime is being short they wont date me inspite of my nice looks as they say.

And yet I'm supposed to thank this higher power for this? What a joke of a life.

Answer 1

we were all given what we have. i am also short, in the bottom 10% of the people my age. there is no point in blaming a higher power for what has been given to you. just live a good life with what you have. feeling that you should have been born as a tall person will not help you in your life.

Answer 2

You mentioned Karma there. If you believe in Karma, then you were made short for a reason, perhaps some bad Karma from a previous life has forced you into this predicament in this one, then the whole point of you being short is to overcome your feelings about it and accept life for what it is.

Also if Karma is playing a part then destiny is also, some things were meant to be. if you are destined to find love in this life (and i believe we all have that chance) then love will find you no matter how you look. The best thing you can do is try to stop feeling so bitter about it all and just enjoy the ride my friend.

Answer 3

Well
Not knowing how short is short I might have a none conventional answer (assuming you are past the "growing stage")
There is this Gregorian (x Russia) Professor Ilizarov using a surgical procedure he adds 3-4-5 inches to humans.
I checked the Internet and he is there. There are complications and it must be pretty expensive, but you are the one to decide.

Height is not the most important thing to lady's beyond the silly age.
Wish there was other answers.
Good luck to you

Answer 4

If you truly believe what you've written it's sad that you feel this way. Look at all the men of diminutive stature that have captured the hearts of women they considered beautiful. Three examples that come to mind are Humphrey Bogart and Lauren Bacall, Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, and Sonny Bono and Cher. There are others I could name, but it might be good for you to investigate the others on your own. Height is much easier to overcome than say, depression.

Answer 5

Yep it sucks to be short.

The good news is that there is no intelligent creator that created you for ridicule or with malicious intent.

So you don't have to be mad at a God or gods.

The tough part is that society is cruel to short people. There is no denying it. I was short until my junior year of HS and it was rough.

Ultimately you have the option of letting society turn you into an unhappy angry person, or taking your life in your own hands and making room for happiness in your situation no matter what the @ssholes deal out to you.

Answer 6

How short? Some girls like short guys, but because of social stigmas, the male is suppose to be taller. Keep trying buddy

Answer 7

It's funny - you're telling God what you think you want, and God is telling you he has something better for you, but you have to wait until you're ready, but you'll never be ready with such a bad attitude, and so you'll enter eternity never having received in life what God had in store for you. That's funny to me.

Here's a tip: shut up and let God work. That's what I did, and then I met my wife, who is everything to me, and more than I ever dreamed God would have in store for me.

And one more thing: God doesn't owe us anything in life. Look at the homeless people on the street who have life much worse than you. Look at the people starving in places like Africa. You have life good compared to other people. There are always people worse off than you.
You are alive. God gave you that, and you should be thanking God for life. And if he never gives you anything else, you should be grateful you had a life at all, some people are aborted by selfish mothers even before they can even have as much as a life at all on this earth.

Answer 8

It is true many girls like guys taller than them. But check out Katie Holms and Nicole Kidman. Many short guys can charm girls of any height. Positive thoughts and live life to the fullest.

Answer 9

Hey I'm short too, and I've dated short guys. You must just have a preference for tall girls. How tall are you? I assure you there is a short cute girl out there waiting for you. This isn't somthing to question your life over.

Answer 10

Date short women.