2007-12-17 13:54:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pluses- Spend time with her and child. Thats a plus if you like children, you feel that family connection. Thats about it.
Minus-
Never get time alone
The child will always have to come first
All activities have to be family oriented
Could have some effect on child development
No spontaneous things all has to be planned
If a baby you always have to carry all supplies
Honestly it's not worth it unless you really love her, do not do a fling with her cause the child can become attached to you as a father figure then bam you leave. Not good for the child, mentally that is.
I dated a woman (22 yrs old) I was (21) and the child was (3) it was very difficult to get any alone time, everything is a challenge. Yes there where those moments were you acted like a dad but if you know it's going no where don't drag it out. But for me all the head aches really over powered the happy moments. I wasn't used to a kid all the time or everytime I saw her. We were together for 5 months, the child even started getting use to me, but I had to end it.
Remember the childs age has a lot to do with it.
Anyways good luck with your what you decide.
Albert
2007-12-17 14:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Albert B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 22:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice to her children , dont say anything gross or mess around (in bed) do somethings with her and her kids pluses
dont care about kids just want sex!
swear, minues
2007-12-17 14:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Shawty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get to be a parent without all that messy sex stuff.
2007-12-17 13:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sausage Mahoney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋