Christians: Is it true?

Question

So...I have a pretty good life...my parents pay $2,000.00 a year for my soccer and go to all of my functions...but...my mom is a drunk...Every chance she gets she goes to the bar and is constantly buying bear...I can't take it any longer...What should I do...

?Is it true?
That the good Lord doesn't put burdens on people that they can't handle?

!HELP!

!PLEASE!

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Answer 1

True. Go and speak to your Minister or Priest. If you are being abused seek help. Have you talked to your mother about how you are feeling? There are all kind of people that can help, either at school or Church. Call AA and talk to them. Above all else remember you are not alone and help is out there. Peace

Answer 2

Is it true?
That the good Lord doesn't put burdens on people that they can't handle?

Yes, it's true although I have heard some testimonies from Christians who were in tough situations where they were asking God the same question because they felt like they couldn't bear what they were going through. They all made it through, but it wasn't easy.

I'm sorry to hear about your Mom, my mother used to get smashed every evening to where she often had trouble navigating the way to her bed by herself. You just have to keep praying and staying strong in the faith. You might consider going to an Alanon meeting too. I've never been but I've heard that they provide a supportive atmosphere for people who have to live with alcoholics

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Answer 3

Sorry to hear About your parents drinking problem you are not alone. It is true that the Lord does not give us anything we can not handle, but that is Handle with his help and the help of other fellow believers. Talk to a Christian councilor, or a minister about how you are feeling. Have you stopped to ask your Mom about all this

Answer 4

Oh no I'm so sorry. Alcoholism is an awful thing to have to deal with in a family.

Please take a look at this website - it's the children of alcoholics foundation:
http://www.coaf.org/

You may find some articles there which will help you cope. Don't forget that God loves you and even when your mother and father forsake you, the Lord will take care of you! (Psalm 27:10)

God bless you!

Answer 5

I agree with Ryan H primarily.

But to answer your question, yes God will always provide a way for us to escape our temptations, and an escape from our sins...

What we need to remember is that our sins do affect other people, and that your mother's sin of alcoholism is not different than any other sin we all continue to commit. We all need God's Mercy, Grace and Forgiveness. Your mother needs your love and help. It is very important that she does admit that she has a problem and seek God's help.

I do not know what is going on in her mind and neither do you, and we certainly do not know what her relationship is with God, but if you are concerned about it, then of course you should feel comfortable sharing your concerns with her. Of course, only once you bring it out in the open can you see where to go from there.

I pray that God works in your family life and that you all receive healing and many blessings! Be strong in Him, nothing is impossible with God!

Pray for your mother, and make it clear to her that you love her and will stand by her in her struggles.

Take Care and God bless you!

Answer 6

Paul the apostle wrote that he had a thorn in his side that he prayed to God to take it out three times but God said "My grace is sufficient." It is true that God will not place anything upon us that we cannot bare and that is because if we trust in Him and seek Him for strength we do not bare it alone. I know your pain on a personal level and all I can tell you is that your mother has a deep anger and depression that is fueling her alcoholism. Most times, it is an anger or depression formed out of a lie that is believed by an alcoholic person about themselves and/or their lives. No matter how she acts toward you FORGIVE her, tell her that you love her, and pray for her. These things will help you to cope with what you are going through personally and they will also help you to grow up and go on strengthened and NOT destroyed by your experience. I truly hope this helps and I will pray for you. God Bless.

Answer 7

Your mom loves you, and has given you tough love in the past. It is time for the one she cares about to show her love for her. Tell your mom that it is bothering you and hope that she would stop drinking so much. It might be the very thing she needs to snap herself out of the path she is heading on. Make sure you do it out of Love. If you can not talk face to face with her. Write a letter out of love. Tell her many things you appreciate about her and then slip it in towards the end and let her know you are worried about her. I pray this will work. I grew up with many uncles that died of alcoholism. It is better if caught early.

Answer 8

It is true. The burdens you will bear will not break you as long as you rely on God to strengthen you. Develop a view of things that does not depend on the mainstream or popular opinion, but which is compatible with God's view, and every burden will also seem lighter. God promises not to leave or forsake those who obey him. Take your case to God with faith and sincerity, and you will receive the strength to face anything.

Answer 9

God doesn't, but Satan does, and it's clear God doesn't control Satan, even if he can.

Why do people commit suicide if they're not given more than they can handle?

Alcoholism 'aint so bad, my dad's a homeless speed freak, so things can always get worse (even for him, and he spends most of his time snorting base). At least you don't have to live with your parents for ever - make the most of it and move out when you're old enough. She's giving you cash and taking care of you, but everyone's got their vices. Don't be so hard on her.

Answer 10

Yes. It is true that the Good Lord never gives us anything that we cannot handle, and He never wastes a pain or hurt we go through.
Anyone can refuge in His arms, they only need to ask for it.
Good luck.