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I had a dream that I crashed a motorcycle in an alley. I didn't hurt anyone but the police were looking for me. I went to my old house where I lived with my dad who doesn't live there anymore either. I went inside. It was cold, dark, dirty and wet. Like rain had dripped through the roof. I was scared. I called my dad and told him how scared I was, not just of being at home alone but how afraid I was of everything in the world. I told him that having relationships scared me and even leaving the house scared me. I got a call on the other line. It was my boyfriend. He told me that he'd found a girl for us to have a threesome with, it was his ex-girlfriend. After he said, I thought in my head while dreaming, that I could never trust him. He invited me over, I told him I'd come but then decided to stay in the house. I stayed in the cold, empty house looking through my old, wet, soggy mail over seeing him.

2007-12-17 11:52:46 · 4 answers · asked by Jessica S 2 in Social Science Dream Interpretation

Also note: My dad and I have a good relationship but are not close. I'd never call him and whine like I did in this dream. He raised me as a single dad and taught me the importance of emotional strength.

2007-12-17 12:02:56 · update #1

4 answers

You seem to not have anyone you feel you can really trust in a time when you really need someone. After the motorcycle crash and the situation with the police, you need some emotional support. Going back into the past for reassurance was not very useful, the old house was in bad shape. Maybe your past, represented by your old house, did not give you the comfort you were wanting from it. You could at least share your feelings with your Dad before the boyfriend stopped the conversation with his call. The threesome idea he comes up with shows a lack of full commitment to you, which is not going to make you happy. The dream does not end with your mood changing, but in a cold, empty house. It all sounds a little depressing. I think you are not connected with the best energy spiritually, I don't know if your boyfriend or other people in your life are contributing to this state. But you need to fight for yourself and try to focus on a positive course for you. Meditation, exercise, a healthy diet, not overindulging, and finding a constructive path with regard to your future, could get you on a better course spiritually. The dream did start with a crash, chart a safer course for your future.

2007-12-17 14:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by astrogoodwin 7 · 0 0

crashed a motorcycle in an alley = can't make up your mind, problem in decision making
police looking for you = guilt conscience
old house = conservative thinking
dad = support, only person you trust
you boy friend found a girl = problem trusting him


It seems more like you have heavy issue of insecurity.
Your dream reflect some sort of trust issues you have from your boy friend or any relationship you may be dealing with.
In your dream, you also have some guilt conscience involved with it. It means you are feeling guilty about things you can't do well. Projected Police looking for you shows sign of guilty feeling that stored in your subconscious mind. This may be involved with decision making. Perhaps you have something that you feel you decided have gone wrong. You may also have some sort of conflict feeling when it comes between you and your boyfriend. The old house reflects how much struggle you have. That may also be why you feel scared in the dream.

Basically, all those things point to one thing, insecurity. You are trying to look for some trust, some security in life. This security is involved with some friendship or relationship you are after in reality. And your dream reflect all about your personalities

2007-12-18 07:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0 0

I think there is a lot of insecurity in your life and you are in a dire need to have emotional support. You need to be protected. There is a strong need on your part to have some one in your life who will take care of you and gives you emotional support.

2007-12-18 01:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by ananya 1 · 0 0

very simple. you have a lot of issues that you need to work out but you are scared, or do not know how to approach them. fix the problem and the dreams are gone. it would me my guess that you have daddy and boyfriend issues.

2007-12-17 19:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by mike d 1 · 0 0

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