Are relationships suppossed to have a lot of ups and downs? Like I'll be happy one day with my partner or two, but then they drag me down the next and it's back and forth. I like them too much to let go and I'm not un-happy. I just am somtimes and sometimes I'm not. Are all relationships like this? Anyidea to make it better? PS She's like this sometimes too. and it happens ALOT. Be4 skool it didn't but now it does.
2007-12-17 11:38:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'ts one girl. I meant two by days.
2007-12-17 11:38:37 · update #1
All relationships aren't perfect there are going to be ups and downs, and disagreements on both sides. Be strong and never let your partner steal your happiness away from you, just because their not feeling so convenient and positive. Also communication is very important. Since you have two your playing with, choose one that makes you smile and feel optimistic about life.
Peace,
Brownies
2007-12-17 11:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Brownies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships those have its ups and downs!
But not as much as you make it seem. If she likes it she must like The feeling of anger and pain. First choice what partner you want to be with because that's whats probably making it worst and then work it out with that person. All i know is that i relationship like yours is not healthy. I like feeling happy and loved not drag or drain out.
2007-12-17 19:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by nell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes its like that in my relationship so i think its pretty normal but what is normal? who says that a relationship has to be a certain way for it to work. It could be that you are both strong independant people who likes to get their points across though if this is affecting our life so much then you will need to sort it out b4 you start to hate each other. I think that its very easy to give the advice but hard to take it as i am going through the same thing and i just thought about that myself so i guess that you yourself will figuire out just what you need to do in order to sort yourself out. Try talking to your girlfriend, maybe she is feeling the same but she just does not want to say. Good luck
2007-12-17 19:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because ur a couple, doesn't mean ur jolly all the time. sometimes, ur partner is not in the mood and needs ur comfort(don't just jump into the situation, cause ur gunna be dragged down with her) make the best of ur relationship and keep ur partner happy then it will go from there.
2007-12-17 19:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by Hooting and Howling. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Any relationship you have with anybody will have it's ups and downs. that life for you. If you really care about her, stick with her and ride out the storms together, but if you feel like you can't take it or it's not worth it, don't feel obligated to stay.
2007-12-17 19:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by [♥]ÿºú-kñºw-whº[♥] 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, nothing or no one is perfect. You'll have your ups and downs, but how the two of you deal with is what makes the relationship grow stronger.
2007-12-17 19:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by tc22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There should be more ups than downs, but there are hard times. I see alot of couples that thrive on the drama of it all, though.
2007-12-17 19:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by ugh192 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes there is alot of ups and downs but basically the best thing to do is just relax dont get mad over stupid stuff and when you do try to talk to her about it and itll work out better!@
2007-12-17 19:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by Popokiza1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If someone doesnt make you happy, they are not right for you. Of course you will come across bumps in your life though. Be with someone that makes you happy and be yourself to make you happy. Thats my advice
2007-12-17 19:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
most couples have ups and downs. try being more romantic for more ups!
2007-12-17 19:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa1234 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋