Well I keep having this reoccuring dream about getting back with my first childs father. In the dream its so vivid. The kisses, the hugs, and even the scents. I havent been with him for 2 yrs now. We are on REALLY bad terms. I want nothing to do with him because of his temper and how he treats our son. He's been with his girlfriend since I told him I would never marry him. In my dreams I go up to him and kiss him. His girlfriend is in it too. She's happy we are together. I never leave his side. Basically, how our relationship was before it went sour. In the end of the dream it always ends with him giving me a kiss and going off with his friends. While he's with his friends Im trying to swim in what looks like a small body of water to get as far away as possible. Before I leave though I take a cassette tape that has his name on it. It really creeps me out. I cant stand him! I just want him to leave me alone so why am I having this dream?
2007-12-17 11:31:54 · 2 answers · asked by Naty 1 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
You still have residual feelings for your ex., despite the fact you appear to have good reasons leaving him. You seem to have a lot of mixed feelings. You seem to being going back to the better times in the relationship. But since in reality, you are on really bad terms with him, the dream does not reflect the reality of the moment. You don't mention having a relationship at the moment. In some way, you would like to have the positive side of the previous relationship without the negative. But life hands us package deals that are not completely to ones liking. I would try to through meditation or other forms of focusing within yourself, to clear out the residual emotions of that relationship. I use meditation to clear out my past emotions regularly. Just focus on the emotions related to this person while breathing deeply, in time your body will get more relaxed. I tense my stomach muscles when I breath in, and relax them when I breath out. This seems to work well.
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