I really dont know what to do...have any suggestions?

Question

my boyfriend and i work in the same place. ive been told that hes making out with a girl on the low. I asked him if he did do that and he said no shes not his type. I dont think the manager would lie about something like that. he aske if we could take a break because i seem unsure of things but Im not leaving cuz its just so hard to say bye and find someone else....I dont wanna belive the ppl at work over a guy ive been with for about 2 years. i would believe him if he wasnt so overly friendly with girls....I really dont know what to do...have any suggestions?

my brother is one of the manager.hes the one that told me other ppl came to him and told him they walked in on them making out. no one else came to me and told me. the boyfriend said the other manager seen him touching the girl and he went on about how the manager that seen them assumed they were making out. my brother has been acting weird towards him. i understand hes gonna watch him like a hawk when boyfriend starts hugging other girls...I think the job thing with boyfriend wasnt a good idea....I wish i knew for sure he did it or not...I feel so bad idk why

Answer 1

If you feel like you can trust the people that told you, then just wait and see if people keep saying that he's doing that, talk to your boyfriend about it again, and if he's acting distant and wants to take a 'break' then chances are, he's really making out with that other girl.

If you both really love each other, then talk about it, get things sorted out and then decide what you should do.
Good luck though :/

Answer 2

Ordinarily I'd tell you to be careful of things that other people tell you, but this is your brother, so that calls a whole other set of rules into play. You're not a court of law; you can act on a gut feeling, a smidgen of evidence, or no evidence at all...you're free to make your own calls with or without cause. I'm not saying that because I think you SHOULD break up with your boyfriend without proof, I'm just saying that so you will realize you are never trapped...you always have choices. Knowing this, decide for yourself how much "proof" is enough proof. Look into the situation with fully opened eyes and an open mind...then be receptive to whatever comes into your sphere of vision. Good luck to you in whatever you decide.