We broke up one week ago, her decision. She wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..
We started out our relationship really fast from the get go, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.
It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..
what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.
She has been hanging out with her guy friends and will take vacations with them this holiday. She wont even spend Christmas with me, instead it will be with someone else whom she calls a friend, an the unknown gender, due to information, when i spoke with her three days ago. In doing no contact and will try to heal my inner wounds.. hope i will be okay and over her soon. thx for reading.
2007-12-17 11:17:28 · 5 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
can't you stop asking the same question? well, you should take it one step at a time and find a girl that you like and start talking to her. once the girl you have been talking to is in your life, your ex will be gone.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-17 11:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wow I am just surprised that a men still wants a relationship. Just give her her space. I understand the not being able to be friends with someone that you see as more. I have been there. As for it being over, I would be honest and say yes. Only because usually when a girl breaks up it is over, and if a guy does they usually come back once or twice. If you want to talk more feel free to email me @ harsenault01@hotmail.com. I understand still having the feelings. There is always that one person.
2007-12-17 19:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by Don't have a Name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have been in your shoes before. What u need to do first is realize that your relationship with her is done. There is nothing u can do now. She wants to be with her friends so u have to set her free. Secondly, you need to move on as well. Just don't stand there and wait for her. Because your just going to hit yourself even worse than before. Move on, try some new hobbies, hang wit your friends and wait a couple weeks till your ready to go on a date. You need some time to recover and I would cut off from talking to her. It's not going to do you any good by talking her. If you do all of these things then u will be in a better off then u were before.
2007-12-17 19:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mike L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heard the saying girls like bad guys?
what ur doing is what nice guys would do
move on n find someone else that u like
everytime u let go of someone, someone new definitely comes in, n usually they're either the same or better than the last
2007-12-17 20:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to meet new people to hang out with.
I understand ur problem since you have always seen her as ur gf then your friend.
2007-12-17 19:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋