ok.......i think my bf thinks im cheating!!! which im totally not... if u were me what would u do/????? plus.....he says hes moving so he can go to school and some acadamy for ski racers and i told him i would be sooooo mad and he freaked out and was all " well...itll make it easier to cheat....since you already are"!!! what do i do!!! i AM NOT cheating
2007-12-17 10:55:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As I see it, it really makes little difference whether you're cheating or you're not. You two are NOT on the same page about what you want/need in a relationship.
He needs someone who he can trust and who will support his goals. You need someone who trusts you and whose goals you will support.
This relationship will not work out. I would end it.
2007-12-17 11:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I stand up in the center of my room here, and yell to the top of my lungs, "YOU CHEATING WRETCH!", what are you going to do about it? Nothing, right? And why is that? For two reasons: (1) there's nothing you can do to control what someone else says, and (2) it doesn't matter what I say, anyway. Opinions are like a s s h o l e s, everybody's got one and they all stink. And if it doesn't matter what I think (being the great and powerful Me, and all), it certainly doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. All you can ever do is live as honorably as you possibly can at all times. Other folks will think what they think and do what they do. But don't let anyone elses actions define the center of "you". Good luck to you, and Happy Holidays.
2007-12-17 19:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry,
(even though im not a guy i will still answer this)
ouch, that's tough,
there has to be a reason why he thinks you're cheating,
try to be more careful with him or like explain that you aren't, and just ask him "with whom"?
maybe you are spending a lot of time with someone else and he thinks that you have something going on with whoever you are hanging out with.
If you aren't hanging out with anybody, then he's just STUPID!!
wish ya luck with your bf =)
2007-12-17 19:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by roxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes manipulative, he could b pushing the cheating issue on u so u dont cheat while hes gone. U shouldnt try to hold him back from his goals. Ur not going to stop him and shouldnt, ur being selfish for evn trying.
2007-12-17 19:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by just a thought 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heya,
He has to trust you, and that just takes time. You have to tell him, that trust is the foundation of your relationship and you cant handle him questioning it all the time. (As it will lead you to cheat) Tell him straight up that he has to get over that fact, and fully trust you. This will be a battle, because it isn't a flick of a switch in his head, but if you care about him you have to reassure him of your love. Frustrating I know, but he is just insecure.
2007-12-17 19:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... just dump him. Say that you don't want to go out with someone who doesn't trust you. Unless you have feelings for him, then you'll just have to prove to him that you aren't cheating. Try asking him where he heard it from, and go from there. Try to work together. If he doesn't cooperate, then threaten to leave him.
2007-12-17 19:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ricky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo on the real, if he cant beleive you about cheating, and cant trust you then the foundation of the relation right there is fcuked. So find someone else. Yah dig?
2007-12-17 18:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋