We have been living together for over a month and she gets mad because I can tell my friend our problems but not her and when she asks why zi say I dunno she is annoyed and says she is leaving moving by wednesday.......
2007-12-17 10:50:36 · 28 answers · asked by heppachris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So many right answers here I am the girl that he is talking about and yes I am moving out you are 33 yrs old and you have to run to your friends house to find out an excuse for letting my kids stay up until 1 o'clock yes u are way too damned immature for me and for my children for that matter!!!!
2007-12-17 16:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, the first year of living together is tough. Living together is very different from being roommates. Fights like these are common when you're a couple, but you need to learn how to work through them. That's part of the reason that you're living together.
First, figure out if you want to live with her or not, and if you still want her to stay, then sit her down and ask her not to move out, but to work through this with you.
Secondly, it might help to set some rules, like "if we're mad, we have to at least talk before we go to sleep", etc.
2007-12-17 18:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're living together but you can't talk to her about your problems? Are you a high school student that somehow moved out and is living on his own, pretending to be an adult but really has no idea what being an adult is? I would leave your *** to if I lived with you and you behaved like that. You should grow up before you play house and pretend to be an adult.
2007-12-17 18:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by connbellingham 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would move out to. You are talking bout her behind her back and making her into the bad person no doubt. You are not ready for someone to live with you non the less be in a relationship. Terrible communication skills pal.
2007-12-17 18:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by Neverender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably been thinking about this for a while and feels its the best thing for her to do. I mean when your in love with someone you share this special bond that you have with nobody else, and she probably feels that if you can tell your friend these problems but not her then you two dont have that special bond.
2007-12-17 18:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by lemonhead (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl wants to feel that her boyfriend trusts her enough to tell her his secrets, and problems..
once you prefer your other friends over her, then it gets personal...
especially if your answer is just "I don't know".
You sound emotionally unavailable, either that or you don't trust her...
are you sure you should be living together?
Maybe her leaving isn't such a bad thing.
2007-12-17 18:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jahs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are much more sensitive so they get mad and offended easily. She might have felt left out because you are not sharing your problems with her instead with your friend. Maybe you don't feel comfortable yet telling her your things. Talk to her though man.
2007-12-17 18:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks like you answered your own question here.
She thinks if you are close enough to live together, then she ought to be your confidant. If you are not going to confide in her, then you're not close enough to be living together.
(I might add that I do not espouse living together anyway.)
2007-12-17 18:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by Damocles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u? first dats middle skool things anyway u cant play dumb u gotta b str8 up and dont talk behind a girls back i could get ugly
2007-12-17 18:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by t0oyg1z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the first answer. tell her whats goin on. talk to her about it. your friends aren't gonna fix your problems. you have to work that out with her.
** if your friend's a girl, you're being stupid. many women are territorial.
2007-12-17 18:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by Selah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋