what can I do to make guys see me as more than just a friend? I am 5'4", curvy, about 140lbs., I look younger than 27, I have a shoulder length haircut. I constantly get compliments from women about how cute I am or how nice I look, but unfortunately (or fortunately, depending on how u look at it) I am NOT a lesbian so it doesn't matter much to me.
I go out frequetly with friends to bars and stuff. But the guys there are not really what I am looking for. Some call me picky, but I just don't want to settle for less than what I think I deserve. I also tend to have a shy streak. I don't talk much when I go out.
I see other women with thier guys and I get jealous and really upset because I have not had a real boyfriend since I was 16! And we never slept together.
What can I do to meet more guys and find a good man ?
2007-12-17 09:16:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're not finding the right type of bars, the most logical answer is to start looking elsewhere. If you like sports, go to a game. If you like theater, join a local play. Branch out of your comfort zone and I'm sure you'll meet plenty of eligible guys.
2007-12-17 09:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad always says to do the things you like doing (rock climbing classes, book clubs, etc. Whatever you like) and there will be other people (men people) there that like doing the same things and BINGO! You have something in common and something to talk about. And it'll come when you least expect it. And your friends can help too by sort of "pre-screening" guys for you. Just be patient (harder said than done) and it'll happen.
Good luck
2007-12-17 09:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe look elsewhere --- and no i dont think you are being picky --- i think you are being genuine and selective --- you want someone serious and are not prepared to compromise --- i know it sounds desperate --- its not really --- try online (dont pay any money) --- find a chat room that you feel comfortable with and get to know some people you just may find someone interesting --- and there are good guys looking for a serious relationship whatever the site advertising says ---- i found my lady online and i would never have found her any other way ---- best wishes
2007-12-17 09:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely hanging out at the wrong place if you are looking to meet a good man! Go to church if you are a Christian, go to the local bookstore and hang out a while, go volunteer somewhere, go to the gym, go to the park, good guys don't hang out in bars and if you are a good woman neither should you!
2007-12-17 09:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur too picky, and dont think ur too good for some guy cuz u never know wats inside him, err my advice to u make ur hair longer, and i cant see how u look like so i cant judge how cute u are, lol, and btw the word 'cute' varies between two different sex
2007-12-17 09:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to say but you are going to have to lower your expectations. Go out to a bar or night club is only for one night stands. you are looking for a relationship---go to a nice dinner party or a book store/cafe, men are always there.
2007-12-17 09:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by LokiandThor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋