This person is 28 and has never been a religious person. He is dealing with a bout of depression at the moment and I'm trying to help him. Problem is, he is halfway around the world and i can't ever talk to him. What could I send, along with a Bible, to help him? Any suggestions would be appreciated.
2007-12-17 08:53:45 · 18 answers · asked by Adam A 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
A collection of short stories by Flannery O'Connor called "A Good Man Is Hard To Find." Not only does it have a strong Christian theme, some of it is among the funniest stuff I've ever read.
2007-12-17 08:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by Acorn 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your concern for your friend is admirable. If he already knows your spirituality then a Bible and a good book is not a strange gift. He, understanding you, will know your intent is to help, no matter if he agrees with you about God or religion. I do believe a phone conversation, a handwritten letter, or some other form of more personal communication is best.
That said, send a Bible and a good book. If he is depressed and not receiving counseling or if needed medication, help him get in touch with a therapist or counselor. A book that he might be interested in or better yet that you may want to read that may hel you in discussions with your friend is "The Lies We Believe" This is published by Mirnynth-Myer and Dr. Thurman is the author. He uses a combination of messages from therapists, philosophers, and religion to help people see why they may think the way they do. This book was a gift to me, and through the years has made an impact on my life and view of the world.
2007-12-17 09:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by parrishpreacher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The book Simple Abundance by Sarah Ban Breathnach
2007-12-17 09:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Relational Word, by Josh McDowell
Evidence That Demands a Verdict, by Josh McDowell
The Case For Christ, by Lee Strobel
I Don't Have Enough Faith To Be An Athiest, ?
Mere Christianity, by C.S. Lewis
2007-12-17 08:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well. I don't really know any Christian books. But if you know any hobbies or interests of this person, you can send them a "Soup for the Soul" book.
Those can be pretty inspirational.
2007-12-17 10:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Tohru ♥ Kyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chicken Soup for the Christian Soul...
Maybe send a little note saying you're not trying to convert him, but are trying to cheer him up the best way you know how.
If you think he might get offended maybe just try Chicken Soup for the Soul
2007-12-17 08:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah R 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
A Case For Christ by Lee Strobal.
2007-12-17 09:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with ɹÉÇÉsuÉs Consiglieri.
Such a gift says "I don't really care about you, I would just like to exploit your situation for my spiritual gain; another tally for the souls I've saved."
They may even appreciate the sentiment, but your idea of a gift is impersonal and even if they "applicate it" I doubt they will actually take it too seriously. God forbid if you are omitting that this person is of another faith, then that would just piss them off.
This is coming from a Christian. If you are to introduce the idea of God as a helping hand, you need to do it personally and you need to not press the issue. You can't show them God, they have to find God for themselves.
2007-12-17 09:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by 5th Watcher 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
What's So Great About Christianity
http://www.amazon.com/Whats-So-Great-About-Christianity/dp/1596985178
a very devout Christian man who is exceedingly smart and knowledgeable for Christianity
2007-12-17 09:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by sego lily 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible and some oatmeal cookies.
2007-12-17 08:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋