i mean, especially romantically, i haven't experienced this kind of happiness, is it because i don't deserve it or what. and yes, you can get easily fooled in romance - like nowhere else as a matter of fact. thanx
2007-12-17 07:57:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
its not that they arnt right for us ... its that we miss what the point of it is ..
2007-12-17 08:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
God does not "place" certain people into your life. God has nothing to do with this world. He created it and then left it alone. He will take care of us in the afterlife according to how we behaved while here. But He is not actively involved in the world. He hears all prayers but does not answer them. The only thing you should do in prayer is express love, thanks, and contrition for bad behavior. We are on our own down here. This is the only explanation for why evil happens, why there are wars, why some people's prayers and "supposedly" answered and others' aren't, why bad things happen to good people, etc. If you meet bad men, avoid them. Hold out on marriage until you meet a really good person. They do exist, and you can be happy, but don't rely on God to send someone your way, because He has nothing to do with this world. Go out and find good people on your own.
2007-12-17 16:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sorta agree with pooflinger maybe you have strayed off your path but then again i believe that nobody should have romantic relations unless they are married, and besdies thats why i dont believe in "true love" as they say it. people who are in relationships say they are in love, but its just attraction and desire and lust thats luring them into it then when the relationship doesnt work out they move on to the next person. love is forever so that you will love a peron or thing no matter what and never leave them and will marry her/him and stay together. thats why alot of people dont get married even though they say they are madly in love but if their partner asked to get married they would say they arnt ready. so to answer your question romance is just sugar coated desire. if you want love find somebody thats acceptable for you to live with your whole life even have a family with because even if you dont feel in love at first, its gonna start building up and will lead to happiness
hope i answer your question
2007-12-17 16:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by strike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said God put them in your path? Maybe Satan was trying to blind you to the one that God DID put in your path. I found out the hard way that as long as I was "looking" for the right man, I always found the wrong ones. When I let it go and decided to focus my attnetions and affections on God, guess what? In about two months He pretty much hand delivered the right man to my front doorstep! We married a year to the day after our first date and have been married for 11 years! Just be patient and stop looking! Let him find you!
2007-12-17 16:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only get "easily fooled" if you don't pay attention to what is going on.
God does not bring people to you to get involved with who are wrong for you; we are the ones who make bad decisions.
2007-12-17 16:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by Esther 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God wants us to be happy. He doesn't put anything in our way to harm us. He's given us free will - and maybe we don't always make the right choices for ourselves.
2007-12-17 16:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To strengthen us in our lives and make us realize that the world isn't sunshine and butterflies. The world is full of people that will rebuke us-- it's our job to defend ourselves the right way.
2007-12-17 16:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ellophante 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We learn from out mistakes. In the valleys we grow. We make the choices and then we learn from them.
2007-12-17 16:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by maidmarion15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are there to eventually help you ground yourself more into God's plan. Some say its a test on your part and if your not focused enough on God you will eventually see it was wrong. either way, appreciate the good with the bad and know what doent kill you makes you stronger.
2007-12-17 16:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony C 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
everyone is wrong for us. it's how you deal with those incompatibilities that define how well you'll adapt to a relationship. Don't buy into the "one perfect person you need to find" - relationships are about compromising and love - not predestination.
2007-12-17 16:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he wants you to have an effect on them. Often you have to kill your pride, forget about what you want, and ask God what He wants.
2007-12-17 16:02:19 · answer #11 · answered by stephenrog2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋