im in 1st year at university, and i have every class witht this girl who i really like...ive never gone up to or talked to her before or after lectures because she always is with her friends and i just dont wanna like intrude on them. ive actually caught her looking in my direction in a few differenet classes, but i really dont no if it was at me or not...any advice?
2007-12-17 07:50:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we both live on campus, so maybe i could ask her if she wants to hang out sometime....but like, should i introduce myself and tell her my name first? or just ask if she wnats to hang out???
2007-12-17 08:06:29 · update #1
Go up to her after she has found her seat, before lecture starts, and tell her you'd like to talk to her after class. That way she can make some excuse to her friends if needed to break away from them. Don't stay there after you've said you want to talk to her, go back to your seat immediately. If she stays after, you have a pretty good indication that she has at least a passing interest in you. If she doesn't, do the same thing in another class. If she avoids you the 2nd time, forget it. She's not interested.
Oh yeah... When she stays after class, offer to buy her a coffee or coke, and try to be an interesting conversationalist. She's gonna be as curious as you, and quite as uncomfortable for a few moments. Don't suggest a get-a-way to somewhere dark and quiet. Keep it open, upbeat and easy for you both to leave once it becomes necessary.
Good luck my friend.
2007-12-17 07:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by David in Madison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's hard when they have friends that always talk to them and take them away. I think that if you can catch her in between classes or at lunch, you might have a better chance at just being friendly. She might think you are weird if you just go up and sit with her at lunch or ask to sit or something. But that eventually passes almost instantly and then normal conversation and thinking begins.
2007-12-17 07:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by niiro13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u can learn a lot and if u can answer in every lessonshe can see u in another way,or u are visible to her...or be funny,or do sth that she likes..
or when u have lesson bring a pretty girl with u...ok i dont know what to say else
hope you ll find the way
2007-12-17 07:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by anijay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldnt be intruding if u'd said "excuse me but..." you need to start talking to her and dont get ur hopes up because it may not always be what u think
2007-12-17 07:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get to know her! your in calss see if she wants to study or something. then you can tell more if she likes you and if you wanna ask her out
2007-12-17 07:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by bobowness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER!!!
how are you gonna know if anything will spark if you dont even let her know you exist?
2007-12-17 07:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would write her a note telling her to me you somewhere.Or face your fear and tell her you like her
2007-12-17 07:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by Summer F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋