i have a b/f who is my friends best friend. and now i like his other best friend and i dunno who i want more?!

Question

i met this guy and he is soo cool. he is my friend bob's best friend chris. i have been talkin to chris for a couple of weeks and i think that i really like him. he is always so sweet to me and he is a really good kisser. well the other night i went and stayed the night with my friend anggie who is bobs sister. but of course bob's other friend jarred was stayin with bob. and i didnt knoe. Jarred told me he liked me n wanted to date me even tho he knew i was talkin to someone else. he kept askin when we were gonna hook up or hang out. he texed me all night long cause we didnt want bob to knoe about it so he wouldnt tell chris. my emotions are all tore up by this point. i am so confussed on what to do. its been almost a week and i talk to them both. they are both really sweet and hott as hell. whenever i am with one i think about the other and how i would feel if they were doing it to me. they both no about each other now but they are forcing me to choose and they want me to choose now.

Answer 1

I bet, why can't they just get along you know? All your after is some attention, I mean geeze the nerve of them, right! J/k girl you need to understand by your very nature of choosing, you don't know what you need relationships for. With that said, it doesn't matter, your young, your showing it, and your confused on what it is your doing with yourself in your life. So whatever floats your boat, no one can detact morality to you, because morality is based on purpose, you have no purpose, thats why your confused. So technically, till you find some sort of purpose in your life, your in a perid of self-discovery and understanding, so make your mistakes, I'm not going to deny you that......