Help, Pregnant, is abortion murder?

Question

I'm pregnant and don't know what to do, one friend says have an abortion, it's just a glob of guew, suck it into a sink, another friends says abortion is murde, she says God gives a soul to everyone at conception
I don't know what to do, I'm single, I have no job, no money, can't take care of a baby. What should I do?

Answer 1

Put yourself in the babies shoes. How would you feel to have been aborted? What about the birthdays you would miss, the summer days of playing, meeting new friends and laughing.

Someone gave you a shot to do all that. Don't you think you deserve to pass that gift on?

And yes, no matter what people say or try to twist. Its murder, plain, clear, cut murder in G_Ds eyes. And worse, its not just murder, but its the harm of a child as well. That is ONE thing NO ONE should ever do... G_D is very clear on His wrath for those who harm His children.

Answer 2

First off im not God and cant judge ya. I cant tell you whether its right or wrong. The world is not a good place and the choices are tough. As all the pro lifers do, adopt, im sure they will take all the children themselves(not)(most are windbags) only action you get from them is being judgemental and they assume they are God, which they are furthest from any God i know. Life is hard if you believe it is murdering then place up for adoption, but there is an element of regret after doing so. There is also uncertainty on how the child will turn out or its place in the world. I am not against abortion, that is an individual choice, noone elses!!! If you decide to keep the child there are alot of agencies that can help low income mothers, dont be afraid to ask for help. Maybe Mr Right will come along and love the child as his own. You and you alone have the choice, the question is what do you want? Life is never easy and the choices sometimes harder, I do wish you all the luck in the world no matter what you decide to do.

Answer 3

You need to know the TRUTH, and not rely on what other people tell you. See the following sites below and your heart will tell you whether an aborted baby is a meaningless glob, or a REAL BABY, a being with actual feelings.

I recommend bringing your baby to full term (just 9 months of your entire life) and put him/her up for adoption... seek help from Pro-Life groups and church programs to help you do this. Planned Parenthood is a "misnomer" and will not help you in this manner, their aim is strictly abortion which has nothing to do with "parenthood"... Besides, how can you be a parent to something aborted and dead? In the end you will be relieved that you took the noble path and you will not have to suffer from the typical condition of "post-abortion remorse syndrome" for killing an integral part of you.


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Answer 4

Abortion is not murder. But that doesn't mean that you are guaranteed to get away with a clean conscience. I'm sure that you will be haunted about thoughts about what could have been...it is part of human nature.

I think everyone is overwhelmed with the idea of having a child at first...but that does not mean that, when it finally happens, that they aren't able to rise to the task, despite their initial fears.

In the end, the decision is yours. Don't worry about souls, or God, if there are even such things in existence. You need to think about whether the future looks so grim with a newborn to warrant making sure that it is never born. And you need to wonder whether you may feel guilt and sorrow for going through with it. If things will be best that way, then take the abortion. If not, don't.

It's your choice alone.

Answer 5

You sound like you don't want to have an abortion. You could have the baby and give him or her to a couple that want children but can not. You would have to know that when you have that baby and you see that little baby you are letting go to a loving family so they can have a wonderful life and you decided not to terminate that little one and now three people lives are better because of you! Take Care.

Answer 6

Its all up to you.. Unless you wish to carry your pregnancy to term(9months),and adopt it away, or raise it, you have no choice BUT to abort.. I don't know your situation.. Do you have parents you could talk with? If not, there are clinics in whatever city you live in,that can help you with "options".. Abortion is a procedure, totally LEGAL and available to end a pregnancy.. Religious people believe life begins at conception, others like the Jewish faith believe,life begins at birth.. Others say until the pregnancy is birthed, the life is nothing more than a fetus.. Still others say, when the fetus can live on its own,outside the womb... Many opinions!! You have the issue, and whatever you choose, Abortion is Legal!!!Now you know your options.. Peace be with you...SOLOMON

Answer 7

An unborn child has the status of "potential human life" until the majority of the body has emerged from the mother. Potential human life is valuable, and may not be terminated casually, but it does not have as much value as a life in existence. The Bible and The Talmud makes no bones about this: it says quite bluntly that if the fetus threatens the life of the mother, you cut it up within her body and remove it limb by limb if necessary, because its life is not as valuable as hers. But once the greater part of the body has emerged, you cannot take its life to save the mother's, because you cannot choose between one human life and another

Answer 8

Man just throws away human life like it was nothing in the process of abortion! But them he will put all his effort forth to save the life of a cat or a dog! Do not abort There is human life there, give up for adoption.

God loves you....God bless

Answer 9

What should you do? Think for yourself. Ask yourself if you believe that the life inside of you is just a clump of cells, or is a real baby. Ask yourself if you can imagine what that clump of cells has the potential to be, and if you love it.

Murder is a legal term. It is not illegal in the United States to have an abortion. I don't think that it's a moral choice, however, because I do believe that the clump of cells is a human life from the instant egg and sperm meet, endowed with a soul. That's "only" my belief, and not one you are bound to.

So you have to decide what you have a better chance of living with for the rest of your life, and what's more important to you.

Answer 10

Yes, abortion is murder. Unborn babies feel pain. This child depends on you for life. If you kill it you will always regret it. Each year on its due date you would be thinking about you little girl (or boy) celebrating her first birthday and taking her first steps to you... or starting school... And the reason she doesn't get to do these things, the reason she is dead, is because you killed her because she wasn't convenient. Believe me, the pain at knowing this is horrible. You would do anything to turn back the clock and have your baby back.

Go to www.itsaboutlove.org where you can speak to counsellors who specialise in helping girls just like you. There is a better way.

Answer 11

Feel free to have abortion, unless you're 6 months pregnant and over. It can seriously harm you if you have abortion after 6 months. You know, even if there's an option for adoption, abortion's preferable because you would eat MUCH more if you are pregnant, have to buy new clothes for pregnant women, have trouble moving (back pains and all stuff), and have MUCH less chance of getting hired, I'd say almost none. People don't want to hire women when they're pregnant. And since you're single, they'd consider you as being "irresponsible". It's your choice.

PS: Being selfish doesn't hurt.