If paternity test was done at a recognized laboratory he cannot deny it but he may contest it as a wrong result. I suggest you get this done at a different laboratory too to buttress your case. In case the second test proved negative, get it tested again in a third laboratory. In such a case, the positive results of any two laboratories will be considered as a concrete proof of his paternity. (Conversely, if two laboratories give negative results, your case will be weak.)
Armed with these results you can sue him for child-support.
2007-12-17 03:28:22
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answered by s_shiromani 4
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I can stand here all day and say that there is no oxygen in the air but that don't make it so. Neither does his saying he's not the babies father. If not for your sake, for the babies make him pay by taking him to court. He'll have to pay the court costs and fees and have to pay the child support, they will just deduct it all from his check and it will all be paid through the legal system. He will also have to pay any back child support from the day the child was born. Depending on his job he may even have to provide insurance. The court will not look on it favorably that even after a paternity test he still continued to deny his responsibility.
If you play you must pay!
Call the Office of Child Support Enforcement, they'll be a great ally. Good Luck and a brighter future to both you and your baby!
I added some website help for you..........
2007-12-17 03:29:08
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answered by Anonymous
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What you do now is walk down to the Clerk of Courts at your local courthouse, and ask 'How do I go about filing for child support?' He or she will help you, and you'll get a court date. You already have the paternity test, so unless he can prove a possibility of lab error, they'll immediately rule in your favor. If he convinces the judge that there was an error, or the test was false, the judge will likely order another one. And of course, that one will also be a positive test, so they'll still rule in your favor!
It may be time consuming at first, but in the long run, it will be worth it.
2007-12-17 04:34:05
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answered by Queen Queso 6
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There is really nothing you can do. You cannot make a man be a man. You have to prove to him that you can do it. If you need money then take him for child support but thats all you can do. The courts cannot make him be in the childs life. And if he dosent want to be there then there is nothing you can do. He has his mind made up. Unfortunately these are thing we go through as women and mothers. Your always gonna be there but fathers are optional depending on how much of a man they are. Maybe all he needs is time to realize that he is the father. If you cheated on him then his ego may be hurt and you cant do anything for a mans hurt ego but give them space and let them be.Good Luck
2007-12-17 03:34:41
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answered by Anonymous
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All you should have to do is go to your local Child Support Enforcement office, which is usually located within your county's Family Court Bldg., and file for child support. Bring the test results with and whatever else they may require such as a birth certificate, paystubs, etc (call first to see what you need to bring). They will then demand that he fill out paperwork and request his financial records, determine an amount based on their formula and file a support order (this is usually served to him in person).
If he doesn't pay he will be in arrears and they can garnish his wages, take his tax returns, etc to get you the money. if none of this works (such as if he isn't working or doesn't get anything back from the IRS) they will start to go after him (depending on how aggressive your state is). he could have his drivers license suspended, his bank account frozen or even go to jail.
Just make the call, go file with Child Support Enforcement and let them do the rest.
2007-12-17 04:18:25
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answered by ifcgurl68 1
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Take him to court. The paternity test proves he is the father and is financially responsible for the child. He can argue all he wants with a judge, but he'll lose.
2007-12-17 03:21:11
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answered by brenderderder 3
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I suggest you stop trying to get the dead beat to become a 'father' and realize that you are going to be raising this child by yourself. That being said, the next step is to get an attorney and file for child support. If the 'ex' all of a sudden decides to 'see the light' and says he'll support you and ya'll don't need a court order for child support... ignore him! Go through with the court action and INSURE you child is going to be taken care of.
If he is denying fathering the child, he will do everything he can to keep from taking responisibility. It is time for you to step up and make sure you do what is best for THE CHILD!
Good luck and I hope this helps!
2007-12-17 03:24:40
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answered by wrkey 5
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Take him to court. You already have DNA on your side. If you want to be spiteful, you can get him for back child support. Also, if he pisses you off, raise the amount every chance you get. Oh, you need to first go to court and establish custody. If you don't he can come take the baby and there is nothing you can do about it. Once you do that, you have everything on your side.
But if you don't ever want to be around this guy get him to give up all of his rights. That way you can marry someone who is willing to love and take care of that child like it is his. He can then sign the birth certificate and the other loser is out forever.
2007-12-17 03:24:32
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answered by sweetrhymez21 3
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First, save the original results and send a copy to him with a letter that you plan on getting a lawyer and taking him to court if you two cannot come up with a plan to take care of the baby within 30 days. You might be able to work it out before paying for a lawyer if he sees that you're serious.
2007-12-17 03:22:09
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answered by bleh 2
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Hi, well for a start i would go after money to support your child, if you go to CSA if you are in UK and you can prove he is the father then wether he denies your child or not he can't get away with not supporting him/her. Then i would just carry on with your life and bringing up your child because no matter if he denies your child you know he is the father, and no amount of persuasion is going to get him to see your child if he does not want to.
2007-12-17 03:24:59
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answered by kevina p 7
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