I am not sure how to handle this...?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and expecting our first child in May. Lately he has been working all of the time and doesn't get home until late. Since becoming pregnant I go to bed early just so I can get up the next morning so we don't have a lot of time together and sex is almost nonexistant. We did have sex yesterday morning but he wanted to again later that night but I was too tired and it was getting late. He got so mad at me that he told me that he might have to look elsewhere to get what he wants. This has become reoccuring and I feel it is so disrespectful especially in my situation when I need him to support me. I find that because this happens frequently, I don't want to be intimate with him. When I tell him this he doesn't get it. Does anyone have any advice?

Answer 1

He sounds like a real prick. You could try to talk to him, but I doubt that will help. I would get rid of the loser, you deserve better. And yes, he should be totally supportive of you, now more than ever.

Answer 2

Why do you have to get up early in the morning? Do you work?
You are only 4 months pregnant, you should not be sooo tired. Better tell your doctor about it.
As for your bf, is he happy about the baby?
Did you have sex often before getting pregnant? He may be working so much because he is nervous about having to support 3 now. And feels you do not care because you are too tied for him.
Ask him how he feels about the baby, working, what does he think will change, and let him know that you still care for him and will make an effort.

Answer 3

He might be feeling alot of pressure because of the baby but that's no excuse to treat you like C&@p. Maybe he doesn't understand the hormones thing. How yours change, your needs change and all that. Regardless, he needs to sit down and talk it out with you in a non-confrontational environment. Sometimes things change when the baby is born. Be patient, which is hard when your pregnant. I'd wait it out till the baby is born.. You can never tell

Answer 4

being pregnant is hard enough, and having a bf thats not supportive makes it harder. but you need to be strong for you and the baby. you need to sit him down and tell him exactly how he made you feel. and whatch how he reacts if he doesnt show interest then maybe you should think ahead for you and the baby only. i know its hard but you need to want the best for you and your baby. also remember if he's working a lot it could be because the baby is coming so dont just come at him with that cause he can turn it around. discuss his rude behavor. and let him know its unexceptable. you both maybe going through a lot. maybe he's nervous about having a baby. thought thats no excuse for that comment. good luck....and congrats on your new baby. god bless*

Answer 5

In a perfect world:

I think you should tell him where to stick it. He is already financially responsible for that baby, so don't worry about that. Hopefully you have supportive parents who can help you out. Dump him.

Answer 6

That was a real crappy thing for him to say. Hopefully he'll apologize - everyone says things they don't really mean. If he doesn't apologize, then he's a real jerk and maybe you should rethink your relationship with him!

Answer 7

Try to put some sense into him..
he should support u..

Answer 8

what he said was not right and should really apoligize and guys say a lot of mean things, but do not mean it. You should really tell him how you feel.

Answer 9

Talk to him and have him just hear u out for a change!!

Answer 10

ABORTION