He states that he cares for me alot, & he is always there for me thru everything..and we just cant seem to stop talking to each other.. I think im really in love, but I dont wanta get hurt. Then The deep part is I think I might be pregnant. any advice????
2007-12-17 03:02:45 · 51 answers · asked by susieB13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him.
and ive been thru the same thing.
i took a preganancy test and then i wasnt.
if you are..is it by him?
so he has another girl preganant?
he is basically cheating.
=O
omg not so good.
=/
i'm surely here to give you good advice.
i used to be a counselour for issues like this.
but talk to him and tell him how you feel.
if he feels the same, you & him should get married if you are of the age to do so by yoursellf without the consent of your parents.
get married and say **** the other girl.
you and him move on togethger.
=]
the end.
2007-12-17 03:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange question. Is 'talking' a euphemism for something else? Is it his baby you are expecting? Either way, you need to dump him NOW. If he's got a girl and a baby on the way you need to get out of his life or it will hurt the girl and baby (as well as yourself). If you are carrying his child, then there are bound to be other girls out there who are sleeping with him as well and may be pregnant too - so he's not worth it....dump him. Get child support from him but ditch him for anything else. If you are pregnant by some other guy, then you must again ditch this guy you're talking about and study your scenario with the father of your baby - who isn't for you either because you are thinking about guy #1. If - and I hope this turns out to be true - you AREN'T pregnant at all - dump both guys and study yourself. Make use of this lucky break and DO something with your life. Stop mooning over someone who is already attached. You aren't emotionally ready for a proper relationship with babies etc.
2007-12-17 03:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by chris n 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend and a baby on the way, he should not be getting involved with other women. It sounds like he wants both of you, which is not right. If he cheats on her, what's to stop him from doing the same to you if you two ended up together? I'm assuming you think you may be pregnant from him, and if that's right, that just shows what kind of guy he is to go sleep with someone else when he already has a pregnant girlfriend.
2007-12-17 03:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by Annabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure if ur pregnant or not. thats not something u can wait to find out.
sharing your man is not the best of things to do, i wouldve said let go, until i read da part of u doubting dat u might be pregnant. talk to him and find out, what he wants to do and tell him ur fear of being preganant.
does the other girl know about you? is he cheating on you with her?
if he is, im sorry, but a relationship starting rocky will end rocky, and if ti dosent,, it will have the rockiest of paths. so if u dont wun to get hurt, its better to stay away. im sure ull not regret that, and i hope u wont. but, i dont really know you or the boy or u situation all that well. if it is not jus infactuation , and ther realy is love, he should be ok with telling the other girl about you. and for you to accept his ex and the baby and respect them for being a part of his life once, that is if u really care about this guy.
if not, its upto you and the boy to decide what you guys wunt to do wiht the situation!! good luck and i hope u make a wise choice and u will be happpy :)
2007-12-17 03:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by princezluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love & getting pregnant is 2 different things. I assumed that your relationship with this guy is already deep. and all this time, you knew his situation & condition. but you continue the relationship.nothing wrong in being in love, with whoever.as long as it's not make anyone hurt, including ourself. ask yourself, how good you knew this guy, inside out. what are you to him. i don't think a person can give their true love to many peoples.important for you to know for sure where you're standing,from his point of view.perhaps, will be better if you talk with this guy about your recent condition.see how he reacts.his decision.then i believe you know what's best for you.i can't say more details because i don't really know the whole story.hope this can help you a bit.
2007-12-17 03:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ordinaryguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you sick because if he had a girl in the begining you should have backed off thats disrespectful to your self and her how would you feel if someone did that to you think about her coming child how could they live with that and hes a dog and he only want you for sex and go to the doctor to find out if your pregnant or not and he still loves his girlfriend cause if he didnt he would have left her but if your not pregnant leave him along he has a family and your just ******* it up! Plain and simple! Please dont take it offensive im just being real!
2007-12-17 03:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat ALWAYS a cheat...If he has been doing this to his PREGNANT girlfriend what makes you think he wont do it to you...In fact he might even tell you that he broke things off with her and in reality hes even still sleeping with her...He wont end this...and I dont mean to be mean but imagine how you would feel if someone did this to you...Thats considered a HOMEWRECKER and I dont think you want ppl to label you as a homewrecker. Just stay away and yes I know you might be in love and all but this guy is up to no good hes going to do it to you to and in the end you his girlfriend and the 2 babies will suffer...And you shouldnt be havin unprotected sex with him anyways god knows if he has something or his girlfriend has something...Take care
2007-12-17 03:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by *Tiny Mommy* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should let go as much as you possibly can - if you are pregnant, then it is a different story - but if he is willing to leave his pregnant girlfriend for you (or cheat on her with you), what makes you think he won't do the same thing TO you?
Talking and being friends is one thing, but sleeping with him is another. Think about the girlfriend - you say you don't want to get hurt, but she is seemingly innocent in all this, and she is the one who is really going to be hurt...do you want that to be you someday?
2007-12-17 03:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by IJToomer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl....run! If he has a girl and a baby, you REALLY think he loves you? Sure he can care about you, but he's not going to leave her or the baby for you. Try to put your "love" feelings aside. and seriously think about what you're saying. And are you really feeling love or just lust or something you can't have so you want it more.
And what are you doing getting pregnant?? lol. Seriously find out if you are. How old are you?
2007-12-17 03:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by aw3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy!!!!!!!! Think about it, he has a girl and baby on the way... What does this say about his character. It sounds like he gets what he wants and then moves on, leaving a lot of heartache behind. Wise Up.
You think you might be pregnant?? There was more than talking going on--use some kind of proctection, don't leave it up to him.
2007-12-17 03:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by toner11@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋