The guy I am seeing is very sweet and wonderful --treats me like a princess--Sometimes I am not that attracted to him. He isn't my ideal type--Its been about 2 months. I want to give the relationship a chance but I think it is important to be attracted to your mate as well--I was attracted to him initially but I am finding since we started going out that I don't find him that attractive. Please give sound advice. Thanks:)
2007-12-16 18:46:22 · 9 answers · asked by maze 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
truthfully, it better to be friends before your lovers. don't be shallow.
2007-12-16 18:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing in a lasting relationship is compatibility. The attraction will fade over time and as you age, But if it has faded so soon, I don't know... Do you have things in common?
Can you see yourself being with him for a long time and having children with him?? Give it some thought... Love builds over time. Take it slow and let things blossom or fizzle out which ever.
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2007-12-16 18:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be dishonest about your feelings for him. Leading him on and trying to force yourself to feel something that's not there is only going to hurt both of you. 2 months is plenty of time to know whether this relationship might work or not. Being physically attracted to your date is important - not the MOST important of course. Read the great love story of Jacob and Rachel in the Bible. What love! What passion!
2016-05-24 07:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have to seek advice from people you don't know.You should have enough common sense to make your own mind up. Do what you feel is the right thing to do,or talk to a professional person in the field of relationships.Besides your question should not be in Religion and Spiritually.It should be in Family and Relationships.
2007-12-16 19:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by ROBERT P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is too nice. That is why you are no longer as attracted to him. Whether or not any of you will admit it. Most Women tend to be more attracted to the Guy who will not always be nice and sweet.
2007-12-16 18:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end it before the roots go too deep, it is like a tree. easy to pull out in the beginning because the roots aren't so deep.
Years later or even months, the roots and embedded deep into the soil, it will be hard and devastating to take the tree out by then.
2007-12-16 18:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by bboyballer112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a BIG diffence between a friend and a lover . A mate in marraige should be both .
2007-12-16 18:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by allure45connie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe God is telling you something. Maybe the fact that he is 'sweet' is a big turn off for you. Girls like masculinity, not girly men.
2007-12-16 18:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a christian you should console with God first and share it with your christian friends and then A&Q of yahoo.
If i am not sure,I'll wait till God tell me so.
2007-12-16 18:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Keak T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋