Me and my Girlfriend used to be around each other all the time and no we aren't. She seems to hang out after work a lot with 3 dudes. I don't trust her she lies all the time and I'm really good at getting the truth with revers psychology. But she is getting good at it now. i need some advice please
2007-12-16 17:13:51 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. Stealth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can't trust her, the relationship isn't worth it. Get out and date some new people until you find one you're comfortable being around AND apart from.
2007-12-16 17:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by Brian 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Persuade her not to.
OK, seriously: it sounds like she's no good. Maybe you had a good relationship in the past, and maybe you thought she was 'the one', but it sounds like you need to get rid of her. Sit her down, ask her straight what's going on and tell her why you feel the way you do. Explain that you don't WANT to feel that way, but that's the way it is. She'll probably come clean, but even if she doesn't, it sounds like she's up to no good.
The bottom line is, if you can't trust her then you shouldn't be with her.
Get rid. Move on. Be happy. Life's too short, mate. It seems like the end of the world now, but in a couple of months you'll be glad you got rid of her.
2007-12-17 01:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Phil K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to get out of this relationship. If she keeps on lying and never changes, it's a sign she might be cheating. But you really need to have a talk with her to settle things right before you make a decision of whether to stay or not with her. If you feel that she's giving you lousy excuses, then you need to leave her. You can find someone better. Good Luck!
2007-12-17 01:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with someone who lies all the time? Even if she's not cheating on you, that doesn't seem like a person that'd be good for you in the long run.
Relationships (whether friends or something more) should be built on honesty, not lies.
2007-12-17 01:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by joes_shmoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its no use the two of you just being kinda like stuck together so i'd suggest you set things straight wit your chic and find out where she stands as far as the two of you are concerned...if you can't work with what she wants walk on brother there's so much to live for!! PS: be very polite about it, no insults bro n drop the attitude but at the same time be blunt...good luck man!!
2007-12-17 01:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by kite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude im sorry but i had the same thing a while back u may have to dump her, you cant be with someone u cant trust thats not how a relationship works.
2007-12-17 01:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by surftight 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, then why are you with her? This relationship sounds to me like a mind f*ck from hell. But to answer your question, you can get some books from Barnes and Noble about how to read body langauge to tell if someone is lying. Oh yeah, let the games begin!!!
2007-12-17 01:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by Lunachit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if there isnt any trust, there isnt a relationship, if you want an honest opinion, then finish it sooner, rather then later, you want to do it this side of christmas so that you can at least try to enjoy yourself without asking yourself all the time if she is cheating or anything, but really no trust = no go
2007-12-17 01:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by deni 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you know she lies all the time WHY are you still with her?.. a relationship can not last if there is someone constantly lieing
you need to tell her that you feel uncomfortable with her hanging out with these guys and see how she reacts !
2007-12-17 01:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by jennifer w 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you waste your time? Really?
The perfect someone is just waiting for you, if you just let go of what doesn't work. Relationships are about love and trust, not reverse psychology and mistrust.
2007-12-17 01:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by Thoughtful Mind 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋