i dont have a boyfriend or anything its just i need 2 know now! asap@!
2007-12-16 16:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The same way you know if a girl loves you or not. You don't.
You never know. You need to believe that your target is telling you the truth. Trust and communication are the key to any relationship and if you don't have either of those, then what's the point?
2007-12-16 16:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he doesnt hesitate to do things for u like break his plans with his boys to spend time with u without wanted to f**k . A man who loves u would tell u but in a strange way. like the sound of his voice. he puts u before almost everything and quick to help u when u need him. Not only that, he appreicates all the little and big things u do for him and he will let u kno, not just by sayin thank you. And if ur like me, where i nag or complain bout lil things that make me mad, or im being a ***** to my man just cuz im stressed out or pissed bout something else, and he is still there after a yr of that crap, then thats when u kno
2007-12-17 00:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by NeeCe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASAP? :) Sorry, but there is no fool-proof way to know whether someone loves you or not. Even when they say they love you, they actually might not. Just don't lose your marbles over anyone, in other words, don't let a guy rule you or become the center of your life.
If a guy proposes, then chances are that he really loves you - unless you are very rich/very beautiful :)
2007-12-17 00:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Manjax 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well. It's tough, but let me tell you from experience, you need to be able to look at the relationship objectively. And with me, being that my closest friends are miles and miles away, I have to look at things by myself without any biases...
I like to think of things as a business venture...
Can this Business survive the way it is going right now? What if my business partner disappears? (marriage and commitment is a struggle from the very get go...) You need to be able to realize your strengths and weaknesses, as well as his. He sucks at something..and if you don't realize that yet, you will...He definitely sucks at something. The point is, do you appreciate the things that he sucks at? Do you find value in the ings that he sucks at? Do you see opportunity where he lacks it in productivity?
It is important to look at things objectively. If he left you for someone else early on, would you be pissed, or would you appreciate his knowledge of what he wants...would you be happy for him.
Call me crazy, but if I'm in love, I sincerely want the best for that person whether or not it includes me...that sounds crazy, but I think that is the mark of true love...when you can sacrifice what you love for their happiness...
2007-12-17 00:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jasen N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, trust me, I know this. At my school there was a guy who 4 Christmas bought his g-friend a diamond necklace and gave her like 60 bucks! Well its not all abt materialism but thats a way some people express it. But like if not that then well you just feel it. not that i have experienced it, but you see a lot of movies in life! Well you just feel it and like when they look at you, hug you, and well stuff like that<3
2007-12-17 01:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by ~☮Peace && Love♥ ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they get hard when they are with u lol. sry I am just had to say it =P but seriously..........he treats u differently than other girls, he usually treats u like a best friend, and he starts to confide in u and trust you with things he may not tell just anyone. But there are MANY ways. different guys show it in different way. I personally joke and try to make girls laugh when I am witht he and I admit.... I boast about sports achievements......... but contrary to popular belief..... it doesn't work.. lol I hope this helps....
2007-12-17 01:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by Smooth Move EX-LAX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know. Like when you find your true love for the first time and look at them at you can just tell he's the one and he knows it to.
2007-12-17 00:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes actions are so deceiving not unless you heard the 3 magic words (I LOVE YOU), don't ever jump into conclusion. Once he said it, make sure its coming from the heart.
2007-12-17 00:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Crissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can know surely because he will try to meet u when ever possible and it will be surely tough for him to be without seeing u or talking with u.u will surely now if a perosn loves u.
all the best
2007-12-17 08:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by nancy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one tool used in judgement is the amount of time he is willing to invest in your relationship.
What sacrafices is he willing to make?
Is 'it' about 'you' or about him...?
Will he compromise at least 50% of the time?
Is he evasive?
2007-12-17 00:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by Rogue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋