I FEEL ASHAMED OF MY APPEARANCE! I HAVE GONE DOWN HILL IN THE LAST COUPLE OF YEARS. AND I JUST DONT WANT PEOPLE TO LOOK AT MY AGING SINGS. I AM MAD AT MYSELF AND EMBARESSAD BECAUSE PEOPLE WERE COUNTING ON ME AT MY JOB. WHAT SHOULD I DO? I DONT EVEN CARE FOR LIFE ANYMORE, I AM NOT AFRAID OF DYING OR NOTHING. WHAT DO I DO?????????
2007-12-16 14:13:42 · 7 answers · asked by anonimous 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Maybe you should drop the entire pathetic attitude and get a grip!!
You have obviously been a positive addition to people in your life...irregardless of all else, you can be again...don't forget that...and please, quit crying.
2007-12-16 14:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by earlofsnoh 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
First: See a dr about depression and get yourself some help.
Second: Maybe you should talk to your employer. Did you not want to quit? See what the possibilities are and explain what you are going through. You might be surprised at the understanding you get.
Third: Get some trusted loved ones on board to support you and work on your health.
Be good to yourself.
2007-12-16 22:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some steps to improve your appearance. start using creams and anti wrinkle lotions. If you have grey hair you can dye it. start working out.
what sort of job did you have that you would feel ashamed of getting older. im sure most people never noticed.
2007-12-16 22:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by zingbartwo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a change of life. Could start by becoming more healthy . Exercise eat only fresh foods and stay away from drugs of any sort.
2007-12-16 22:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by Mogollon Dude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My estimation is that you were unsatisfied with your last job. You felt it was beneath you. You weren't proud of it. You hated your job. Just a guess now what you need to do is go out and apply for your dream jobs. They may all say no, but you will feel so good about yourself dressing in a suit and tie and applying for jobs you do not have the qualifications to get. You never know, they may offer you a job. More confidence. Believe in yourself. Then if you feel low again and it worked apply for a dozen more dream jobs just for the good feeling you get. Peace.
2007-12-16 22:19:17 · answer #5 · answered by Professor Armitage 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Go see your Doctor....you seem to be going thru some sort of depression...he should be able to help you..dont try to do this all alone...dont give up hope...you can do it......dont let your feelings about your looks take your power away....get back up and strike back at life........Good luck......
2007-12-16 22:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by Rusty929 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find someone to talk to. It sounds as if you have a mild depression.
2007-12-16 22:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by Marvinator 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋