No one has a way of knowing anything about you, unless you are telling them...I would suggest you stop telling people about yourself, and your past...stop arming your enemies...Deny it,..and hold your head up high...Believe it or not, there are people out there much worse off than you, that go on...and don't let their past keep them from having a future
2007-12-16 20:49:08
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answered by MotherKittyKat 7
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I often feel that way since I live in a small town and have been manic-depressive with aggression issues and worse since I was 16. People, even family, tend to either treat you diffferently or stay away from you.
The best option if possible is start fresh. Move to a new place but it will come down to getting help so you can start to get all the suppressed emotions out in the open. Keeping things bottled up doesn't help. Find a therapist to talk to and no matter how people or society treat you remember that's it's more important how you feel about yourself than what others feel.
2007-12-16 11:18:08
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answered by Tammy_Suto 5
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You need to harness a little positive energy and take your life back. I feel you on the unfairness and injustice; as someone who has also suffered from rage by abuse issues it is important that you voice your feelings. First off; don't take any more ****, but keep in mind that not everyone is out to get you and that you now have the power back in your hands to turn it around. This will involve a little caring and support from some type of family, which I hope that you have, and I would also suggest therapy and drug treatment to help with the borderline personality disorder.
Take your life back; if you let them beat you down and defeat you, they win.
2007-12-16 11:25:29
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answered by gillianinchains 3
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I agree with the above post that says you might want to start afresh in a new town, and this time when you go about things, don't be moved to anger so easily. Anger is manageable and there are methods for dealing with it that you can use at the free site that provides the excerpts from an Anger Management course at http://www.ucmeta.org/Pages/Articles/AngerManagement/AngerSelfHelpManagementStrategyAngerManagementSelfHelpDir.html and if you want to watch some videos that mgiht help you realize that you are not who you think you are, you are not the damaged personality, but rather a deeper self altogether, check out Christine Breese videos at http://umsonline.org/SpiritualVideoSatsang/VideoFreeSatsangChristineBreese.htm
2007-12-16 13:39:07
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answered by Laura Phillips 2
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understanding which you desire to make a metamorphosis on your existence is the terrific, first step to looking a fashion out of the dark places you have been. all the failings which you have been by, and executed, are a factor of your previous. you could't circulate lower back and alter the day previous, yet you could start at present and make a sparkling the next day. settle for that the failings on your previous have made you who you're - the best an the undesirable - you does not be who you're without each a sort of reports. in this existence, there's no one to %. us up and help us stroll forward yet ourselves and the folk around us who care adequate to notice and attain out. in case you do not have that help equipment, discover it. detect a church, and connect their men's team. connect a bowling league. Or detect a club or team that does some thing which you have an pastime in. i know it may sound tacky, yet looking healthful people who like an analogous issues which you do is a huge thank you to fulfill people who will advance to care approximately you. And, whether you're actually not a 'churchy' guy or woman, the those which you will meet there are possibly to grant the kind of being concerned community which you're searching for. Christian, Catholic, Buddhist, Taoist, Muslim, regardless of you experience gentle with. There are people available who will care approximately you, and the you which you attempt to develop into. you purely could discover those healthful connections. i'd wager that making a number of those connections will lead you to great things. then you definately can think of approximately going lower back to college, or getting to understand a commerce, which will finially launch you out of that lonely place which you have been lost in. in simple terms shop finding up, on a daily basis is a sparkling day to make a favorable distinction in somebody's existence. good luck, it extremely is an prolonged highway, yet you're actually not walking it on my own.
2016-10-11 10:32:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Everyone is judged by their appearance and behavior, you are branded and labeled. Now you live in that box or you change, society is not changing. Also you think about the past to much, we've all had problems. Why should your life be the only one to speak of injustice? Everything you talk about someone here can say that's me. You say you have rage and anger, the next breath you say you understand. Well if you understand then you have to change.
2007-12-16 16:29:21
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answered by Coop 366 7
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Count the number of times you have used the words "I or me" in your question.
People who are entirely concerned with themselves rarely have anything to offer other people. In order to be popular you need to give something back. Most people love to talk about themselves. Try practising listening to other people for a change.
The next time you strike up a conversation with someone, try not to say the words "me or I" and ask them about themselves. You may find this harder than it sounds but you could also be amazed at the outcome!
2007-12-16 11:17:03
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answered by Lozzie p 2
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Accept that there are problems and do something about it.
It is up to you to find solutions & moving forward with getting over it.
Let go of the past.
Let go of your anger.
Move on.
2007-12-16 12:13:42
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answered by flip 6
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Move to a diff area....get yourself sorted, then when your on the up..go back to the area your from just to give them the finger..lol.If they were stupid enough to turn their back on you when you needed them most, they were not worth it anyway. But it is always worth going back just to prove to them what they have lost through their own stupidity and the shocked looks will be worth millions. :)
2007-12-16 11:32:12
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answered by m s 3
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What would I do?
Seek help & move to another town to start afresh.
2007-12-16 11:13:43
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answered by Meeeee! 5
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