why are guys soo mean when turn them down or they find out we don't think they are so hott. i mean why can't we be friends??
2007-12-16 08:37:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like a cliche. doesn't it . no but we can still be friends.
2007-12-16 08:47:07 · update #1
Why would you want to be friends with someone who is mean to you?
Normal men aren't mean to women just cause they are turned down IF they have an ounce of self respect.
2007-12-16 08:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by George 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that. But if the guy comes up to you and only has it in his mind that he wants to date you. Being friends is out of the question. Now if you shot him down...that hurts the pride so, some take the easy road and start calling you names to better there pride.
2007-12-16 16:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a guys point of view, we aren't looking for friends we are looking for love, romance, companionship, although as the relationship grows being friends are part of it, we want more..most times your friend the girl finds a guy and really how much time is there then for friendship, the two guys compete one to only be heart broken girls should just tell guys i dont want to be a couple,friends dont find each other attractive they just want to hang out together
2007-12-16 17:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by zoro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get turned down you get hurt and offeneded. It's hard to be friends with someone who got hurt by that person. Why would you want to be friends with someone that hurt you? That makes no sense.
I can relate!!! Been there done that meaning I got hurt many times.
2007-12-16 16:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by conny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because their feelings are hurt. They feel vulnerable, and they don't want to stay around with their vulnerabilities exposed, so they lash out to drive you away.
2007-12-16 16:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when someone gets rejected, they often turn that hurt in aggression. dont u see why they act like they dont care when they reallly do? guys are almost as bad as girls...lol if not more
2007-12-16 16:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ally MacC 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i knoww yeah. it's just pathetic, they like hate you when you reject them.. sorryy i haven't got a clue ]:
2007-12-16 16:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋