I am tired of my mother, I am adult now, she still think I am kid, want to control my life, I complained, she does not understand, can you help?
2007-12-16 08:33:01 · 4 answers · asked by Joy J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
U may be an be over 17..
but an adult... takes care of their self..
home, car, utilities..
It makes no difference how old u are..
if u live under someone Else's roof....
it is their house rules ............u go by..
don't like it.... ???? move....
just remember u act like a kid.. u are treated as a kid..
u have a job..? pay her rent...
carry some of the weight of the house...
then u will earn her respect to stay out of Ur business.
good luck.. happy holidays.
2007-12-16 18:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents have the right to control you while you live in their home - no matter what your age. In fact, your parents have a right to control anyone's life who lives under their roof - even a stranger.
When you get a home of your own - you will have a right to set the rules for your houseguests and your houseguests will have to follow the rules you set up.
If you don't like your mom's rules, then move out and start living as an adult on your own.
2007-12-16 17:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dina K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe you need to TAKE control of your life and act like an adult.
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2007-12-16 17:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out of your mom's house, and tell her to phone you when she wants to treat you like an adult.
2007-12-16 16:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by richszerepi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋