Those that are close to me will know the background of the story, but in a nutshell I have a bad relationship with my parents. I was supposed to stay at college over Christmas break but the college changed their mind and I had to come home. Back in May or June I had a dream that I know God gave to me. He finally showed me what the dream means, and its a task that I have to do for Him (and me kinda) and I dislike it. So I'm home and the conditions are perfect to do the task but the evil hate that I have for my parents is really strong and I'm stuggling to do this. So I've been praying for help, and the conditions of the home are so perfect for it that its crazy, but inside I feel too weak, I don't know how to fix that. Today I found out that in 9 days its going to be more open and almost like do or die for me.
Any suggestions?
2007-12-16 08:10:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I would suggest talking with a trusted priest or church official for further spiritual guidance. An older friend that you consider to have great wisdom could also help. God could give a message through a dream, but it could be hard to interpret it correctly. His scriptures are very clear and can be used to teach and guide in the way we should go. Be sure to look at the whole situation and what happens after the "task" is completed. Again, sometimes we do not see all the options that God may make available for us, and a trusted spiritual friend, priest, etc can be very helpful.
God Bless and I will put you in my prayers.
2007-12-16 08:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident, i'm a training Catholic. I do sense undesirable while, at Christmas and Easter, all those "two times a year" Catholics pop out - yet then I comprehend that it must be worse. it ought to ok be conceivable they do no longer pop out in any respect. it quite is complication-free for somebody, who attends Church each and every week, to pass to Mass on Christmas, Easter, and Holy Days of criminal accountability. I in lots of situations ask your self purely how plenty greater problematical it quite is for persons, who do no longer attend Mass frequently, to get out and pass to Mass some time consistent with year. we can't think of it, by fact all of us be attentive to what we would be lacking. i do no longer think of those "two times a year" varieties can totally savor what it quite is they're lacking. in the event that they did, they had be at Mass better than two times a year. i'm proud to be Catholic, so it quite is each and every of the greater disappointing as quickly as I see people taking an "oh hum: mindset in the direction of their vocation as lay Catholics. All we are able to truly do approximately it quite is pray, and desire that they occasion we set will, sometime, motivate them to initiate living the Catholic existence style all year around.
2016-11-27 21:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by golub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are a gift from God.. (Their love and Care)
The mother bears the pain and inconvinience of carrying us in her womb for nine months
then the pain in the delivery
then the trouble of taking care of us during our upbringing , Like sleepless nights, when we are sick staying awake in the nights , checking if we need to change , Just sacrificing all her time and putting in all her efforts to take care of us.....
That is why it is written in the Quran, to respect and love our parents,
So remove all the bad feeling you have got in your mind about your parents, whatever may be the case , whatever be the events that may lead you to think negative about your parents, You must do your duty, Respect your parents.......You will God willingly get peace.....
You are responsible for what you do... Everyone else is responsilble for what they do....
Peace be on you.
2007-12-16 13:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by jafar sheikh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unfortuantely, not knowing what you are really talking about, i can not suggest anything but to pray on your actions or what you feel you need to do. with such hatred in your heart toward your parents, you need to pray more strongly for the ability to forgive as Christ would do.
i do't know why your asking only Catholics but - feel free to email me if you don't want to expound here & i'll do what i can to offer my opinion as a Catholic.
2007-12-16 08:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Marysia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no god, so you are imagining a cosmic purpose from a dream, which is your mind working through your issues. Do what makes rational sense. If they are dangerous, make a new life, unless you really think you can change their hearts.
2007-12-16 08:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by OPM 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
More prayers and love your parents with all their faults: 4th commandment.
Talk to a priest and maybe go to confession.
I'll pray for you.......even if you are not Catholic.
2007-12-16 08:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by HenryIX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not air on the side of hatred.
2007-12-17 07:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by Daver 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take 3 rosaries...5 hail mary's...2 our fathers...and read the commandments...
Then call me in the morning...
2007-12-16 08:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
do it...because God told you to!
2007-12-16 08:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by *Tessie* 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋