She always enters my isolation room and says that she misses my hugs and kisses. So do I. What will I do. Can I hugs her once in a while ? Shall I let her wear a mask too ? By the way, she cannot understand why I am wearing a mask.
2007-12-16 07:37:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
Her mother should be able to teach her how to wash her hands thoroughly and how to put on the mask and leave it on while visiting you. Kisses do not have to be on the skin - it is the act itself that relays love. She can kiss you through her mask. She is old enough to understand that this is what she has to do in order to visit grandma and get her hugs and kisses. Hopefully, there might be a time soon when all of this is no longer necessary.
2007-12-16 09:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by J B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your grand daughter doesn't understand and I am sure you are both upset about this. I think that if you feel a hug is needed once in a while, I would allow it. I know you doc said no, but your grand daughter can wear a mask and it can be explained to her why she needs to wear a mask in 3 year old terminology (like have a cold and don't want to give it to each other). I think you both need a little hug here and there and can still follow most of doc's orders. My prayers are with you and your family and hope you are well soon.
2007-12-16 07:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that you have cancer. The reason why your doctor told you that you should avoid people is because he/she has likely put you on immunosuppressant drugs to help fight your cancer. These drugs will suppress your immune system so that you are very susceptible to infections. Unfortunately, children (especially young ones) often carry viruses and other infections that could make you ill. Having her wear a mask is a good idea as long as you gently explain why the both of you are doing so.
You should explain to your grand daughter that you are sick and that you are trying to get better. And that as soon as you get better, you can give her all the hugs she desires.
2007-12-16 07:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kathy B 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should explain to her what is going on but don't scare her. Explain to her that she will need to wear a mask so you don't pick up any germs and become sicker. At three she might think wearing a mask might be the coolest thing in the world. Good luck!! Take care of yourself!!
2007-12-16 07:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by imamom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth do you have to avoid people, Ive had few very very close relatives with it, undergoing radio & chemo and they have never been told that. I suggest you check, its bad enough going through it, its rediclous to suggest you be isolated as well. That cant be right, people have it and stay in hospital wards together.
2007-12-16 08:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by leigha 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes let her wear a mask, this closness is just what you both need, she is too young to understand at the moment just enjoy xxxxx i hope you get well soon xxx
2007-12-16 07:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's terminal I would do what ever I wanted. A Doctors opinion in a terminal situation means exactly jack squat.
2007-12-16 07:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋