im in iraq and will be home for my first born...how long do i have to wait for sex? after birth.home 2 weeks!?

Question

my wife recently went to the dr and asked how long she must wait to have sex after the child is born naturally.. im in the us army and serving 15 monthes in iraq .. my wife and i have been without sex for 6 monthes and after my 2 week leave to see my first born i still have another 9 monthes!! were both extremely horny (parden my language)so please some women out there give me some good news!!

Answer 1

Unfortunately if you guys are going to do the deed you have to get it done before baby is born. There is no way in those first 2 weeks no matter how willing she is now that she will feel up to sex after giving birth. Those first 2 weeks are pure misery of healing from baby even if it's "just" a vaginal delivery...those still cause alot of damage and pain that she has to heal up from. Also she's going to be dealing with a major hormone dump from having baby....imagine major PMS symptoms basicly. She's also going to be woken up every 2-3 hours or more to feed baby. Even if she decides not to breastfeed her breast will be swollen and engorged (read excruciatingly painful) from her milk coming in.
Most women aren't up to sex until at least 3 weeks after birth. Even with that the risk of infection is so high since sex will introduce bacteria into the vagina and uterus. Remember the spot where the placenta was attatched to the uterus will still be an open wound essentially. You don't want her getting a uterine infection especially since you won't be home to help her recover from it!

Answer 2

so, basically from other answers, you ain't having sex. But here is an idea for you. She won't want to have sex after the baby is born. But she will still have use of the hands. maybe y'all could compromise on a handjob or something. you'll be getting some kind of satisfaction from her, while she will as well because she is making you happy. Hope this helps.
stay safe, and thankyou for fighting for us.

Answer 3

Wait till A) you're sufficiently previous. i'd say the minimum age is approximately sixteen (it certainly relies upon on you and him), yet I waited till i became into 18 and that i nonetheless regretted it later (it did no longer artwork out). B) You the two believe one yet another. in case you finally end up asking something like "is that this all he needs?" or "what does he particularly think of of me?" then you definitely weren't waiting to come to a decision to this C) you're arranged. while you at the instant are not delicate with him touching you, do no longer do it. while you're measuring in dates or weeks or w/e (as in, 2 weeks and he can touch me, 4 and we are able to have intercourse), then you definitely are patently no longer mature sufficient to make this dedication. On an somewhat final be conscious, any pastime in a dating is a style of dedication. the extra severe (and relaxing) the pastime, the heavier the duty of holding the dedication turns into. believe me once I say, intercourse is 1000 circumstances extra helpful while you're unique, trusting, and committed. P.S. The touching ingredient is all as much as the lady. as quickly as she needs to be touched, all she has to do is supply him the assumption, and permit him have relaxing.

Answer 4

They say 6 weeks.
I can guarantee YOU will be the only one feeling 'horny' after the baby is born...

Answer 5

Sorry, it's usually 6 weeks, especially if she gets stitches.

Answer 6

you're out of luck, sorry ... usually they say 6 weeks

but don't worry, you'll be so tired from caring for the baby that you won't notice....

stay safe

Answer 7

sorry man you have to wait until the end of your deployment

its 6-8 weeks after the birth congrats and thanks

Answer 8

i think you have to wait about 6 weeks, am sorry if im right i no its dissapointing xxx

Answer 9

SORRY, THE DOCTOR WILL TELL YOU 4 WEEKS IF SHE HAS THE BABY NATURAL AND IF SHE HAS A CSECTION 6WKS. SORRY I COULDNT GIVE YOU BETTER NEWS