I have been chasing men all my life. Should I stop and go with the flow?

Question

For example, let the man make the first move. Please explain your answers - share your experiences.

Thanks to all who participate.

I am 55 years old and single.

Answer 1

I think you should chase after men, and in some cases it would be good to make the first move, but in this case I think you should let the man make the first move. Drop hints, and flirt like crazy, but don't do anything to big. Let him come to you because if you go to him, he could be decieving you. Be Careful, and have fun.Good luck. I hope you find someone (:

Answer 2

Sweetie, life is a balance of pursuit and being pursued. Until such a time as you decide you want off that merry go round or you find that special someone. You say you've done all the chasing but at an age of 55 I feel certain over the years many a fellow chased you as well. I would not chase anyone though, let them know in a subtle way that you like them and give them the opportunity to show if they are interested in return. Just go through life being your charming self. Love will find you when you least expect it sometimes.

Answer 3

I think you're right about men should make the first move. And I'd say you should not seek for love, for love will come in your way which you don't expect to come. I hope you'll find someone who can love you, and you'll love back. :-)

Answer 4

do what you feel is comfortable. Most of my gfs they made the first initiation in everything lol I need to be more proactive in searching for a mate. GL =)

Answer 5

i find when u aren't looking for something u find it

Answer 6

stop