im in love with this guy...
last night we talk about our feelings... i told him that im really serious about us.. that i really love him.. and i said.. "i want to take a chance with you"...
is there something wrong if i told the guy that i want to take a chance with him?
2007-12-16 02:49:13 · 10 answers · asked by Fdfdfdf S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well no if he is serous about you...i mean if you guys talked about your feelings, i suppose he said that he was feling the same way...so it's a gud thing...you won't waste your time with the chase even though they say that the chase usually makes the relationship...
2007-12-16 02:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by wdf05171987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! sounds scary doesn't it?!
But it's alright.. you've displayed your intentions.. and now he is aware of them...
now, what he plans to do with that depends on his character.. not on his gender... (lol) i've been there, done that... even "played" the role of being the one to have someone exposed their vulnerable feelings.. and its mainly about who the person is .. as a person.
Observe his character, delve more into who he is as a person. Is he stable? Kind? reliable with emotions?
How did he react? was it positive? If so, that's a good step forward.. from there.. just take it as a life experience.. learn.. and don't be afraid of taking a chance.. that's the excitign part. and if worst comes to worst.. be ready to learn.. be an observer of life. and NEVER give up on love. otherwise, you'll be doomed to a life of depression..
too many people view life too negatively.. and i wouldn't advise you be that way...
anyway, sorry for the vagueness of this response.. im in a bit of a hurry, mate..
best of wishes!
~ Ariana
2007-12-16 10:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Yo Dawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Take a chance and evaluate the relationship.
2007-12-16 10:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Best of luck to you!! I wish everyone would take a chance the way you did.
2007-12-16 10:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by diva9047 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooo! honey you did exactly the right thing! you go ahead and you take a chance with him because your lucky that you have a guy that understanding and willing to take chances! lucky ducky!
2007-12-16 10:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-12-16 10:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you pro'lly shouldn't have told him you loved him, that was like so dumb.
2007-12-16 10:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by Orion Quest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is not
take into consideration how long you have been togethere
2007-12-16 10:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by roise n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think so,why he felt bad about it?
2007-12-16 10:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk
i guess not...
2007-12-16 10:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋