My b/f of of 6 months calls me twice every day and sometimes more. well this last week he didnt call me at all on tuesday and then again on friday and when i tried calling him no answer then i texed him asking what was up. he then text me back saying "no not mad at you just alot of **** going on, hope to god it clears up tonight. I will call you when it is does." this was at 5pm friday night. at 8 pm i tried calling him and no answer. i email him and say i am sick of this bull shitt and you better call me and tell me what is going on. no call again on sat and then a email at 5pm telling me that "long story shot neighbor girl is here she flunked out of college and her and her mom got in a huge fight and he is trying to fix it and its going no where." so i called him again no answer. I told him to answer his phone or we are done. still no answer so i text him saying if you dont answer your phone it is telling me you are having sex with her so goodbye. and then he turns around making it
2007-12-16 02:47:06 · 16 answers · asked by yep its me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look like i am making a big deal out of nothing. And making it look like i am making a big issue out of it and he still wont call me. Now dont you think that something fishy is going on other then just him trying to help out some young neighbor girl (early 20's)?
2007-12-16 02:49:07 · update #1
There are legitimate emergencies that can cause someone to not be able to talk to you right away. This, however, doesn't seem like one of them. There is no reason he can't find a few moments to text, email, or talk to you.
Not answering the phone just seems silly to me, unless he's afraid that once you get him on the phone you will start asking questions he can't answer.
Don't go all psycho on him and make accusations though. That will only make it worse.
Simply step back, calm down, and text him a simple message.
"Have the respect for me to tell me the truth."
Then leave him alone.
If he calls, then listen. If he doesn't, then walk away.
2007-12-16 03:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no wonder he isn't calling you now! No disrespect intended, but you kinda acted like a psycho. You have to have trust in him, or it will never work out. It's crazy to threaten to break up with him over not getting a call a couple of times. Sometimes things come up, and if that's enough in your eyes to ruin your relationship, then it must not have been very strong in the first place.
2007-12-16 10:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally feel like he's the one that got you sooo use to all receiving calls from him twice a day, therefore is causing you to be mad about it all. Why don't you go over and see if YOU can "help" in anyway. I would get suspicious too if my boyfriend did that everyday and suddenly stopped!
2007-12-16 10:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Yvette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to calm down and trust him. Give it a little bit of time and just wait. Maybe he's telling the truth and he really does just have to take care of this girl. If he is then he's doing something nice and you're not in any place to judge him.
2007-12-16 10:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
His story is a mighty strange reason to not call you. I think you're right that he's seeing someone else, or just tired of you. He wasn't spending 24 hours and more 'breaking up a fight'. That's crazy. He's not even a good liar. Be glad it's over, and get someone who deserves you.
2007-12-16 10:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop calling him. Wait it out and see what he is going to do next. Observe his behavior a bit longer and than make a judgement. Respect for yourself and do not call first.
2007-12-16 11:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by ala 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are justified if my boyfriend called me everyday more than once and then stopped I would be a little irritated. I would talk to him face to face and if he can't give you that respect move on. It is not cool to put another girl in front of you, you are after all his girlfriend. Goodluck I have been in your shoes and it sucks!
2007-12-16 10:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by Super_freak 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He blew you off by not answering your phone call and texts messages , and yes he's sleeping with her men always use that same line sh** is going on don't be a fool walk away and protect your heart because he's no good.
2007-12-16 10:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by funspicetee 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get ovee it! you and him arnt having a healthy relationship. honestly, i mean that many calls a day! he is obviously having issues in his life right now, that doesnnt mean hes cheating on you!
2007-12-16 10:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur deffinetly. overreacting. apparently he has a bit of trouble and can't talk to u right now. wait a while, before u gett all on his back
2007-12-16 10:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋