like this guy and i don't know if he likes me but everytime i see him he always flirts with me and recently i think he has found out that i like him back and now he aint flirting as much as he use to. Also few days back i got really drunk at a club and i got off with his mate and he aint talkin to me anymore and its really hurtin me inside. I texted him saying that i miss him and he goes are you sure about that. I really want him to at least talk to me again help???.
2007-12-16 01:06:47 · 10 answers · asked by Miss_Party_Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are hurt because you slept with his friend and now he isn't talking to you? You can't get more self-centered or selfish. He's not going to talk to you again because he knows what you are now.
2007-12-16 01:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he found out how you felt about him then stopped flirting with you or at least less than he used to, would indicate to me that he wasn't interested with you in the same way so he shouldn't be that peeved off that you got off with his mate, should he, however I think he's now decided he wants you and is suffering a bout of jealousy but he should forgive you as you didn't know he liked you in that way, either he wants to go out with you or he doesn't, time he made his mind up I think, ask him out right, you haven't got anything to lose no more, good luck!
2007-12-16 09:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Rainbowz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He enjoyed the Chase, but when you showed him that you were interested he backed off. Maybe the reason is that to took him by surprise. Now when you got drunk and went with with his mate this showed him that you could easily be persuaded to cheat instead of waiting for him. He is paying you back by thinking you fancied his mate. Say to this guy I thought you had gone off me and was not in control of myself, but if you had shown a bit more interest this wouldn't have happened would it.
2007-12-16 10:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh oh. i think you know you made a mistake.
don't beat yourself up about this. people get drunk all the time and do things they regret.
it seems as if he did like you and is upset that you got off with his friend. but if you ask me, if he knew you liked him then maybe he should have been more forward and got in there sooner. he should be mad with his friend, not at you.
text him and ask him if he wants to meet for coffee or something to have a chat. just BE HONEST with him, and he'll be honest back with you.
if he doesn't reply then don't keep pestering him, he'll get the message, just give him time to come round.
good luck! x
2007-12-16 09:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by vansiepurple 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you realy know the way to let a man know you fancy him,yeah sleeping with his mate should realy impress him,only got youself to blame for this one darling!
2007-12-16 12:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he flirted with you and knew you liked him to and then did nothing about it then its his problem not yours give it time and you will be on speaking terms soon he might be more angry at himself for not doing anything about it good luck
2007-12-16 09:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by oG33MANo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's goddam obvious-your behaviour!
2007-12-16 09:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetheart but ya blew it he thinks your a ****
2007-12-16 09:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by Ulsterlad 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well in my oppinion you didnt like him enough or you wouldnt have gone with his friend. maybe its his friend you like. that was cheap of you
2007-12-16 09:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by debbie_fowowe 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
stop being a flirt... either f . uck him or stfu
2007-12-16 09:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋