I don't have a handicap and have dated a gal in a wheelchair, it made no difference to me. I have a friend in a wheelchair that I am attracted to, she has captivating Indian (not native American) eyes. Approach him carefully, he may like you as you are, or he may take good care of you for other reasons. He may feel obligated to help you because of your handicap, or he may be acting out of pity for you. He may see you as helpless and an easy target. He might like you just for you. Go somewhere semi public where you two can talk with out too much distraction or interruption, go out for coffee or something casual. Listen to his body language carefully, you'll see. Ask him how he feels about you when the moment is right.
Hope this helps, feel free to contact me and let me know how it goes.
Dave
2007-12-15 23:04:43
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answered by Dave R 3
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To be on the safer side,as for u not to get hurt later,i think u better make sure whether he has "love" or "like" or"empathy"or "sympathy" for u..
Only bcoz u r handicapped,it doesn't mean u can never have a love in ur life...Nobody is perfect...Only that u r physically challenged...everybody is challlneged in some way or the other..when people of same "like" meet,they fall in love..dn't feel disheartened if he doesn't "love" u..atleast u have a great frnd...
Be careful as not to end not having either "friend" nor "love"...all wishes...
2007-12-15 22:48:51
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answered by Nimmy 5
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You have some incapacity physically.It doesn't mean that a person won't love you. The case you mentioned may be right. Ask him and you will know.Don't allow anyone to take advantage of you.Judge carefully and then decide.OK?
God Bless
2007-12-16 04:46:07
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answered by bikashroy9 7
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It depends on how he acts... he might just be showing extra attention because he feels sorry for you or feels you need extra care, so it will be difficult for you to tell by his actions.
Be interested, try to get to know him better, and keep spending time with him, if he notices your interest in him and becomes more distant (in the way he acts, not the amount of time he spends with you), he probably isn't interested in you that way.
2007-12-15 22:48:47
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answered by Anonymous
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if someone loves u that means he loves your nature, your inner beauty. Ofcourse physical beauty does matter, but upto certain extent. 1st of all You didnot tell why u think he loves u.
Is it because he cares for u does not means he loves u.
And one more thing liking & loving r two diffrent things.
So 1st be sure wheather he likes u or he loves u.
Another way is that u ask him that what ever he is doing for u, is it sympathy or he likes u? The rest depends upon his answer.
2007-12-15 23:03:56
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answered by Vijay 1
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Best thing you can do is suck it up ask him,
not if he wants to be with you...but a more subtle way,
like what does he think of your friendship. That way
you're not leaving yourself exposed and out to dry, and
the ball is in your court after he answers.
So if he says something like"
i like hanging out with you"
then hurray for you..he's your good friend. vs .
"your cool and like my sister "
or
" your hot be mine".
always be subtle....it leaves the pressure off you.
hope this helps.
2007-12-15 23:22:06
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answered by Slim_Chic86 1
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If i were you i would go and talk to him but you should be ready for any kind of answers... Whatever the answer its not the end of the worlD... ;)
2007-12-15 23:01:50
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answered by Craig Tucker 2
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well you have to ask him... maybe he wants to be your friend and take care of you..or he really likes you and he wants more! you don't have to loose anything if you ask him..good luck : )
2007-12-15 22:46:29
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answered by magda 1
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if he takes care of you then yeah he likes you. Unless if it's his job or something.
2007-12-15 22:42:30
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answered by aurora 2
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well
i dont think he likes u
i mean he likes u as a friend
there are many other girls around him
who are normal so
u should think again
2007-12-15 22:41:11
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answered by Capricorn girl 3
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