I'm dating this guy for about a month. He's perfect match for me (his starsign is Cancer, same as I am) and his Chinese zodiac sign is Rabbit, and I'm a Dog-person, which is good combination becoz Rabbit & Dog are secret allies. The only catch is he's 5 years younger than me..i'm 25 this year and he's 20. Will this relationship work...? Does age really matter?
2007-12-15 21:24:28 · 13 answers · asked by amaww 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I hate to generalize, but guys at 20 are not usually looking for a long-term committed relationship.
They also tend to mature more slowly than women, so emotionally he's more likely to be where you were at 17.
10 years from now that 5 year difference won't mean much, but it could at your age.
Think about it, take it slow, ask him what he wants, and then judge him by his actions and make an informed decision. After all, you know him; we don't.
2007-12-15 21:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by whiskeyman510 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 20:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both working, then it may not matter. However, if he's in school and you're not, then it's tougher, because his life will be really different from yours. Otherwise, five years of age difference doesn't matter, but you should see if he's mature and wants the same things you do. For example, he may not see himself getting married before he's 30 and you might want to get married in the next five years. That would be a problem.
2007-12-15 21:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of coarse this relationship will work, well, actually to tell you the truth, most relationships don't work out now days, but give it a shot! why not try new things, and age doesn't matter. my parents friends are married and the girl is 9 years older then the man, and they've been together since i was in kindergarten, well, even before i was born, and they're still together, so why won't it work out for you? good luck and i hope it turns out great!
2007-12-15 21:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 YEARS is not that much of an age gap alot of men perfer older women cause the younger ones can bring so much drama dure to being unexperienced in relationships ..I'am 47 years old and have been on both sides dating quite younger and quite older..Age is a number really it is what you have together that counts and what you both bring to the relationship that matters most good luck
2007-12-15 21:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by Hulagirl96734 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number but for an old women to data a younger guy is not always a good idea i have seen a lot of relationships fail... just be careful ... he is not even an adult yet ... if i were u i would not rush into it
2007-12-15 21:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by cutechi101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love knows no age.
if u two will try to work things out of course.it doesnt matter what age as long if u two are willing to do everything possible to share eachothers lives with eachother
2007-12-15 22:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by Lasagna delivery guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age does not matter
but some people it does
cuz if the age gap is too big they can hardly get along
for me age gap does not matter as long as we are in love
with each other and true to each other..best luck to u...^.^....
2007-12-15 21:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by rocknroll1313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellll !!!!! to be honest i m lookin for a older girl and age doesnt matter at all ,,, i works wonders when ur in a such a relationship ....
2007-12-15 23:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 yrs gap doesn't matter especially if u look youner than ur age.
2007-12-15 21:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋