Almost all of my friends are guys. They are the dorky (but awesome) ones that, once you get to know them, they are great people. A few of them REALLY like me, but I don't like them back, and I don't want to date someone that I don't have feelings for. I guess I am just waiting for Mr. Right even though he probably isn't out there. On the rare occassions that I DO like a guy, they seem to not like me back, probably because I can't be myself around them, like I can around my other friends. I feel so guilty when someone that I DONT like asks me out because I know how they feel. It takes so long to finally build up the courage to TRY to do something about your feelings, and then you get shot down, I feel so awful. What am I suppossed to do? HELP ME!!! Please.
2007-12-15 17:58:42 · 4 answers · asked by imawierdy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do wut u have been doing 4 the last 18 years! have fun, u dont NEED a guy! if u wunt to wait 4 mr.right then wait! =)
(i think there is always sum one out there)
2007-12-15 18:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Shaye. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you don't try then you would never know.stay courageous and expand your horizons.go new places meet new people and date.even a dating service if you must.you will find a guy and being a virgin is very desirable .like being the first man on the moon.you want to plant your flag there for all time and make that place yours.
2007-12-15 18:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19 virgin, had 1 girlfriend mainly by choice. So I hope my opinion helps. I have been in Love once, and thats it. I think that its fine that you have so many guy friends. Even though some of them have feelings for you in that way, I agree that you should not date them because you dont have feelings for them. They will be thankful that you didnt when they look back. It is much worse date someone when you have no feelings for the, because they will get hurt.
No one can tell you what Love is, they cannot describe it because any time they do they do not do it justice. Its to big of a thing. It is really hard to understand your feelings. normally when they get complicated, is a good indication that you may have feelings for them. Basically there is no easy way to understand if you could Love someone is to try.
Get to know the person really well, and if you think that the friendship could later turn into a deeper relationship and could Love the person. then go out on a few dates. Start dating the person and become a couple. just because people are together doesnt mean they Love each other. I know that sounds stupid but its not. Dating exists as a test to see if people can get married. after you date for a while it will become clear if you Love the person, or should be just friends.
There is no way to test your Love. No one can tell you that you dont love them. No one can tell you that they know you Love them. Its too personal and too big for that. anyone who tries is wrong.
Dont stress that you are running out of time, or that you dont know what Love is. a little secret is that no one does. But you will know it when it finally happens, it may take a while to realize it, but eventually you will, and its great.
hope at least some of this helps
2007-12-15 18:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a virgin, by choice, but I have dated 3 girls and one of them for 7 years! I am 26. I made out a million times but never crossed the barrier!
I am keeping my virginity for my wedding night!
You can date, but only if you have the confidence that you will dump the jerk if he asks you for sex. Well, I guess you are better off without a boyfriend.
When the time is right, you will get him!
2007-12-15 18:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋