I really like the man I am dating, except for his teeth. Should I tell him?

Question

His teeth are discolored and not aligned properly. The thought of kissing him is...ouch,,,I can't do it.

Answer 1

When you are telling about somebody`s bad thing you have to be careful and tell in good way so that he gets motivated to rectify it.
One way to tell him as below.
" You are so lovingly, but when your teeth will be as lovingly as your."
Also you have to solve his problem or show him the way to correct it.
" It may get more brighten by brushing twice or thrice, once in morning before breakfast, then in afternoon after lunch night after dinner"
You are liking him that means he is supposed to be one of your good friend so now it become necessary for you to correct him.
Do it successfully with your wits.
HAPPY CHRISTMAS !

Answer 2

Hahaha how serious is the relationship?! Discolored is easy enough to fix with home bleaching kits, but not aligned properly is going to require serious dental work that'll likely take years and be very costly. Are his teeth DIRTY or just funny looking? If he's got poor oral hygiene and a raunchy mouth, that's a completely different deal. If that's what's going on, then just tell him brushing his teeth on a regular basis isn't an option if he wants to kiss you. But if he isn't dirty or stinky, and the relationship is still casual, he probably won't pay hundreds or thousands of dollars in dentist and orthodontist bills just to keep dating you. I mean, if you were casually dating a guy and there was something about your body that he didn't like that would take years and a ton of money to change, would you do it, or just date someone else?

Answer 3

woah ummmmmmmmmm tough one, you're obviously NOT going to be able to get past this, and if he hasnt thought that whitening his teeth would do him good at this point...your objectives as far as looking good differ and im sure there will be other dissapointments along the way. The part about his teeth not being aligned properly should be the main focus here.....that would cost thousands to fix...its not something he can really control. I would just say move on.....if you havent made out with him tons and moved further on romantically, I would say beat it! And let him be!!

Answer 4

You don't. He may not be able to afford it...Dental work is expensive and he may not have great benefits...Also, if he has a flaw, I am sure he is well aware of it...Guys can be self conscious too...And if you point it out to him, it will hurt his feelings...Maybe you will have a right to tell him this when you are married...Until then, you should be able to get past the teeth...If her weren't brushing or something that would be a different story....It sounds like it is purely cosmetic...If you truly love everything else about him...His teeth should not stand in your way...

Answer 5

Yes, you need to tell people what bothers you if you hope to overcome the problems. If you have money offer him to do a makeover. Ask him if he wants to come with you to your dentists office because you have an appt and you want him to hold your hand. If you dont have one, make one. Get the scoop about his attitude towards dentists and that will help you to get to the subject of fixing his choppers. Tell him you think he would have a dashing smile and he is allready close to perfect. You would like to look over at him and have an Old Navy commercial flash of sexy man then have him grin and his teeth shine at you like he is superman...:) That might help.

Answer 6

NO thats awful and selfish im sorry to sound mean but would u want someone to tell u? if it doesnt bother him than thats all that matters bc trust me he could probably find a woman that doesnt care. thats him thats his teeth and his mouth hes the only one that has a right to have an opinion about it and whats telling him going to do? just hurt him and make him feel bad about himself. if he thought it was a problem to him it would be fixed. if u like/love him enough surely u can look past his teeth.

Answer 7

No, dont tell him. He obviously accepts the way he looks. Bring up the topic in everyday conversation, like how you admire a friends teeth and how gorgeous they look. He will probably get the hint. Why did you ever start dating someone you are not attracted to?

Answer 8

Yes, you should definitely tell him. He may be offended at first, and maybe you wont date, but you'll be doing him a tremendous favor and you'll give him some knowledge about why he's being rejected. There have been times in the past where women have broken up with me bec of things like this, fixable things, and women don't usually give "exit interviews" so If you tell him you'll be doing him a favor, a huge step forward.

Answer 9

You really are taking a chance,but if it bothers you enough you must go for it.I had the same problem with my guy & although he said no one had ever commented on his teeth pryor to me,he bit the bullet & had his front teeth capped,& he looked wonderful at our wedding....be loving & tender...I told my guy that he was a very good looking man,& his teeth didn't fit the person he actually was.They projected the look of poor hygeine,which wasn't the case at all....The best of luck to you....It cost him 5,000. for 7 teeth,so shop around....

Answer 10

casually bring up a whitening procedure..ex: i' thinking about getting my teeth whitened with these trips (show him the box).. tell him the price (less than $30) and compare it to getting them professionally done (alot more!). also casually mentions the bad side of drinking to much coffee,soda,tea, etc..amd what it does to you( teeth discoloration fits in this category)..he'll somehow get the hint..hopefully.